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Adult Friend Finder is a TERRIBLE Place for Guys to Meet Girls


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I've read a few people now and again that if one wants to only have casual relationships, they should go on Adult Friend Finder. I can immediately tell that these people either have never used AFF, or have never had to have used AFF.

 

It's time to set the record straight once and for all.

 

AFF is probably the WORST place online for men to meet women. For one thing, men outnumber women by like 3 to 1, and when you factor that's there so much fewer attractive women on AFF, it's about 10-1. All those guys are competing for those few girls.

 

The worst thing about AFF is that AFF, believe it or not, has a Rating and Review system. People can actually post on eachother's profiles about how good at sex they were when they met.

 

Because of this, women all flock to the guys who have good reviews so it snowballs. Women on that site only go for guys that have had sex with lots of other women on that site.

 

So it begs the question, how do you get that FIRST positive review? How do you get that first woman to sleep with you if she doesn't see any previous positive reviews?

 

Last of all, AFF is full of fake profiles that send fake messages to everyone as soon as their monthly subscription is about to run out. I fell for it the first time. I didn't the second time. All in all I wasted about $60 on AFF.

 

So there it is. Let's kill the myth once and for all. Adult Friend Finder doesn't work for men.

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One time I put a bowling ball in a oven and let it bake at 350 deg. F for about 1 hour and 13 minutes. Nothing happened. All in all I feel like I wasted about an hour and 13 minutes.

 

So there it is. Let's kill this myth once and for all!

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I had friends who decided to have an open marriage. They went to AFF.

 

Most of the site is full of old people, fat people, and couples seeking another woman for a 3some. The "myth" they put out there of hot women looking to get laid is ridiculous. I never even tried the site and I could see it from the ads.

 

Come on...hot women don't need a site to find sex partners. They need a miniskirt and a night out. Plus if I was a very hot woman and just wanted sex, I'd either seek out a hot guy or go further and sell it.

 

I'm sorry so sound like a cynic...but I have to kai-bosh a lot of these misconceptions. Can the Average Boring Guy get laid? Yeah...but he either has to:

 

a) Make himself into an above-average male

 

b) Find a decent* woman, date her, and get into a RL.

 

c) Start a FWB thing with an insecure girl or undesirable** girl.

 

d) Buy a hooker.

 

 

 

 

* "Decent" meaning she may or may not be above-average looking, but she's got the brains, personality, and heart of gold to make her into a hottie.

 

** "Undesirable" doesn't mean just looks...it can also mean she's got loads of drama, red flags, problems, etc.

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