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LDR break up after awesome years


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I've had a LDR for 3-4 years. But a few weeks ago I recieved an email it was over. She didn't want to be in a relationship anymore as she said we would be unhappy later.

 

When she moved for her new job she started to feel depressed and it probably went downhill at that point.

 

Is there any point in maintaining a little bit of hope that we maybe can talk things through?

We never had any fight and we always valued eachothers opinion, we shared everything.

 

Should I call/write her in a few days/ weeks to let her know my feelings are still the same?

Has anyone experienced this before and did things turn out oke again?

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Go NC. If she wants to change her mind then she will. Begging and whining and generally being a girly-man won't help you in the slightest.

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Go NC. If she wants to change her mind then she will. Begging and whining and generally being a girly-man won't help you in the slightest.

 

The people I talked to, told me the same. It will be hard for me to go NC. But you're probably right.

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