told i loved her after we broke up, bad idea?

[edwardEnigma]

i broke up with my girl (whom i was with for about a year), we began to argue alot, and i felt that i needed some time to just get my own stuff together.

i went cold turkey one day after an argument and didn't contact her at all.

3 1/2 weeks later i began to realize that i actually do love her. but i know that a relationship is just not the best thing for both of us.

I think she's basically over me.

I sent her a text, just saying that i miss her alot, and that i miss her.

im 23, shes 20, i just graduated college, shes in her junior year.

well, she said that she doesn't wanna be in a relationship now, and that shes going through her own personal ****. she said that after we stopped talking she was upset, and didn't understand it. she basically was a little heart broken. well i told her that i love her....i dont know why, but i just have been missing her and started remember all of the good times we had. she says that she wants to be friends....i told her that im not expecting anything from her, but i just wanted to tell her that i love her. she says its immature of me to just go cold turkey, and then randomly text her saying i love her and miss her when i havn't really told her i love her in a long time.

 

im guessing i should just continue the NC, and move on??? there is no way in hell i am going to find another girl anytime soon.. im just not that good looking i guess. what should i do? was it a bad idea saying i love her after its over? do i just look stupid now...sigh lol

[andyohyeah]

your single at age 23 i envy you... when i was your age I had a similar situation and then another girl at 25 and then again at 28 lol... life keeps moving buddy. you'll be fine just take care of yourself!