How do you actually make a move on a woman?

[Banega100]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t249317/

 

Is this the same girl? If it is, then i think she thinks of you as a friend, or a brother or whatever, which is not something that changes. In which case, don't try to kiss her.

 

Instead, ask out another girl you find pretty, then come back and ask this question again

Edited November 20, 2010 by Banega100

[WTFBBQ]

That's about what I was thinking.

 

Anyway to test the waters before the arm thing?

 

If either the arm around her or the kiss attempt fail, is it a sign to give up? What's the best way to respond?

 

If I do get rejected, my first instinct is to immediately take her home and delete her number. We're school buddies but if I get shot down in a physical advance, I don't want anything to do with her. Would I be over-reacting?

Try throwing her over your shoulder and schlepping her back to your cave.

[Ruby Slippers]

The best is when he just goes for it. No hesitation, no doubt. Just lays a good one on me.

 

He will have ramped up the physical contact by then, starting with touching innocuous places (arm, hand, knee, back), and determined that I am receptive to his affection. Once he knows we're good, then away we go.

[somedude81]

The best is when he just goes for it. No hesitation, no doubt. Just lays a good one on me.

 

He will have ramped up the physical contact by then, starting with touching innocuous places (arm, hand, knee, back), and determined that I am receptive to his affection. Once he knows we're good, then away we go.

Thank you Ruby.

 

Start with the more innocent areas, then just go for it.

[LittleTiger]

Thank you Ruby.

 

Start with the more innocent areas, then just go for it.

 

But ONLY if you are on a DATE.

 

A date being a social get together involving two people who understand that the intention is to get to know each other better and perhaps, at some point during the date or in the future, intimately.

 

Never, repeat NEVER, touch a woman who has already said she's not interested - whether she said it 6 months ago or 6 minutes ago.

[somedude81]

But ONLY if you are on a DATE.

 

A date being a social get together involving two people who understand that the intention is to get to know each other better and perhaps, at some point during the date or in the future, intimately.

 

Never, repeat NEVER, touch a woman who has already said she's not interested - whether she said it 6 months ago or 6 minutes ago.

LOL

 

What are you, the guardian of womens rights and dating efficacy?

[Ruby Slippers]

Here's the situation, I'm with a girl in my apartment we're sitting on a couch maybe watching a movie, our bodies touching.

I was going by this.

 

If a girl is sitting next to you on the couch watching a movie and your bodies are touching, you've got a green light to get a little closer...

 

...unless she's playing games, in which case you don't want to get mixed up with her, anyway.

[carhill]

Yeah, I'm sitting back thinking about all those times, all those touches, all those kisses and all those Hoovers, meaning unhealthy and broken women who used those same signals to abuse and deceive.

 

Hope it works out OP. Don't waste much more time on this. Get going...