aimeeg Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 So here's the deal. Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year. I lost my virginity to him on our four month anniversary. I am seventeen so, I know I made a mistake, and we did it too soon. He's honestly the PERFECT guy, he has southern hospitality, he always compliments me, and is always the greatest thing to me. But we spend so much time together. But for the last couple of months, I've been so moody about what I want anymore. He's all I could need but part of me is unsure.. and I don't know why. Because if anyone is the bad one in the relationship it's me because I'm not as nice as he is. Is there anything I can do to alter my mind about me, or why am I doing this? I want us to be okay and be fixed.
Eternity001 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Do you have any idea where your sudden doubt stemmed from? There has to be some reason behind it, you don't just doubt a "perfect" situation.
Author aimeeg Posted November 19, 2010 Author Posted November 19, 2010 Do you have any idea where your sudden doubt stemmed from? There has to be some reason behind it, you don't just doubt a "perfect" situation. I have no idea... I wish I could figure it out.
Eternity001 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Then I would just say that because you're young you're just having natural doubts. I know I did at 17. You ask questions you really don't need answers to at that age sometimes which results in you being even more confused because you had no reason to ask these questions in the first place! I say just enjoy it and stop questioning it and if you find it's eating you up so much then talk about it with someone you're close to. Maybe everything being all too perfect is a little bit boring perhaps. Maybe you need a break from the "norm". Instead of spending every free moment you have with him maybe spend it with friends every so often or do something different.
Author aimeeg Posted November 19, 2010 Author Posted November 19, 2010 Then I would just say that because you're young you're just having natural doubts. I know I did at 17. You ask questions you really don't need answers to at that age sometimes which results in you being even more confused because you had no reason to ask these questions in the first place! I say just enjoy it and stop questioning it and if you find it's eating you up so much then talk about it with someone you're close to. Maybe everything being all too perfect is a little bit boring perhaps. Maybe you need a break from the "norm". Instead of spending every free moment you have with him maybe spend it with friends every so often or do something different. I definitely agree, I think spending less time together will help us. And I don't even know why I feel this way... I'm not even questioning one specific thing, it's the relationship in general and nothing even seems to be wrong!
Hhhh Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Lolll wow eye opener for me girlfriend was 17 when she broke up with me after almost 2 years. We spent to much time together and she bolted out of the relationship so fast and didn't look back I guess the doubts come at that age because you want experience new things. I guess you should let Jim down easy and please don't ignore him it will just piss him off like it did me loll.
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