aimeeg Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 So here's the deal. Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year. I lost my virginity to him on our four month anniversary. I am seventeen so, I know I made a mistake, and we did it too soon. He's honestly the PERFECT guy, he has southern hospitality, he always compliments me, and is always the greatest thing to me. But we spend so much time together. But for the last couple of months, I've been so moody about what I want anymore. He's all I could need but part of me is unsure.. and I don't know why. Because if anyone is the bad one in the relationship it's me because I'm not as nice as he is. Is there anything I can do to alter my mind about me, or why am I doing this? I want us to be okay and be fixed.
iamawesome Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Don't blame yourself for tensions in your relationship. The fact is you are seventeen. You are still growing and what you are experiencing is just that, growing pains. My advice is to avoid anything serious at the moment. Go out there, be free, and give yourself space to grow and have fun. Keep things simple and light-hearted. With time you will come to better understand what those "uncertainties" are and how they apply to your needs and wants. Hope that helps.
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