mgene15 Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 ME and my ex girlfriend broke up a few months ago, and we had an abortion. She recently dumped me. So my brother texts me today sayin he's gonna be a daddy. And I am very happy for him. But at the same time my heart has dropped. I miss my ex soo much and to think we could of had a baby. I'm just really hurt right now and miss my ex gf soo much and she got with a new guy right after we broke up to take away the pain i guess. Anybody with something positive to reply with? thanks
SimonSerenade Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 ME and my ex girlfriend broke up a few months ago, and we had an abortion. She recently dumped me. So my brother texts me today sayin he's gonna be a daddy. And I am very happy for him. But at the same time my heart has dropped. I miss my ex soo much and to think we could of had a baby. I'm just really hurt right now and miss my ex gf soo much and she got with a new guy right after we broke up to take away the pain i guess. Anybody with something positive to reply with? thanks I'm sorry to hear about your situation buddy, I've shamefully been there many of time's, The first time I was with somebody for a year or so and she had an abortion as she felt we were both too young for a baby, Second time was pretty much the same, She was too young, Third time wasn't an abortion, The person I was with overdosed by accident and died while she was pregnant and me and my recent ex had a baby, Love her to bits still but the family life wasn't for her so she left to live with her mum and after a year or so eventually finished me so that she may have some freedom and start living her life, As for the ex being with another guy, I know how that is too. My ex who had the first abortion got with somebody after a month or so and is still with him so I'm happy for year and the ex who had the second abortion turned into a bit of a slag and messed around with everyone after we broke up and my very recent ex thankfully hasn't done anything like that or got with anybody but I dread the day I find out she does as that's the future chance of a family out of the window for me which is never easy to deal with. All in all I think what I've learned from my past relationship's is too move on cause if one person wasn't ready for all of that, Well it don't mean the next one won't be and it sounds to me like you deserve better than what she put you through, It's cold to get with someone straight away after a relationship, I've never been able to do it as it just makes the pain worse... Maybe one day she'll realise that and come crawling back, Until then my only advice would be to move on, I wish I was in your situation, Back then breaks up were hard but I didn't have any ties to these women which made is so much better for the next one to come along, I'd never regret having a child with my ex, I just think it would be so easier to move on if we hadn't, Goodluck buddy.
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