How many months would you say until there are problems in a relationship???

[wonderwhy1]

It's a general question I know but was wondering what everyone's experiences are. Like when you get to the make or break point. I just ended what I thought was an incredible 5 month relationship and the fighting began 3 months in (we moved along pretty quickly-mistake)..Then as far as I know went back to her ex or wants to. So question is general in nature-but when did the problems begin??? Whether it was fighting or whether something just wasn't right??

[Gdunkman]

In my case we were together for a year and a half, and we had first problems in 2 or 3 months from the beginning. We had minor fights every month, I thought those were steps of learning each other, and she became unhappy in five months, but was hiding it. The fights were really insignificant, I guess she seeks for ideal relations which doesn't exist in the world, unless she finds a real doormat/slave.

[poorguy]

I didn' think anyone was going to answer the quesion at all lol-thanks....That sounds about right from my experience

[poorguy]

Oh yeah and good point about the hiding it part...That's part of what I was wondering too

[Am4Real]

It's a general question I know but was wondering what everyone's experiences are. Like when you get to the make or break point. I just ended what I thought was an incredible 5 month relationship and the fighting began 3 months in (we moved along pretty quickly-mistake)..Then as far as I know went back to her ex or wants to. So question is general in nature-but when did the problems begin??? Whether it was fighting or whether something just wasn't right??

 

Sounds like you were her rebound and she maot have been totally over her past lover...I hate to tell you this but she was likely thinking of him often and was never quite there with you in her heart, hence the ease of returning to her past.

 

No worries for you...it's not likely to last with her EX , the odds are very much against her. Be prepared when she bounces back to you again as you will then have to decide if you want to continue her loop of lust of find the right one for you.