poorguy Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 She's finding reasons now to email me to tell me things that aren't even true!!! She told me she needs some surgery now and her brother told me that that was news. We were together for 3 years and broke up 6 months ago. I went total NC until maybe last month we started emailing once in a while. She had a new BF 2 weeks after we broke up so I stopped communicating with her. So now this is the latest excuse to email...Her and her new guy even just got a new place together. So why email something so serious-I mean it's been 5 months and I of course hope she's ok, but why bother with this now??
alimpo83 Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 It's strange, I really don't know. Maybe she's feeling that the new guy is not that special, or once in a while she's second guessing. Your NC worked, at least partly, and she felt it. But in spite all this, If she's moving in with the new guy, let her and don't think about it. My NC started about a month ago, and in the past ten days or so, she's always posting in fb how bad she's feeling, that she has monsters in her head, blablabla. NC rules, for every possible reason, starting by your mental health! I broke mine now, because I feel different,strange.
redhound13 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 its could be a multitude of things if she's a vengfull cunning woman, like many i know she is bragging and wanting you to squirm. maybe looking for attention, trying to bait you into a conversation. jealousy? idk. could be she feels guilty and is once again trying to get back into your head. she could be looking for a friend. and ive heard it time and time again "you should be a friend." no. give an inch...they take a mile. she is gaining SOMETHING out of it, and if you do nothing, it gives her nothing.
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