figuring out where i stand

[mas]

So ive been dating this guy for a little over a month and trying to figure out where i stand with him. I have known him for 6 months prior to us dating. I hang out with him everyday that I am not working this last month which is alot bc i only work 3 days a week (12 hour shifts). I have met his family at his nephews football game and his good friends. The only problem is that i dont want to bring up the relationship stuff and want him to be the one to say something.. He drunkenly told me i made him nervous and im the only one hes with and asking me the same. He continues to say how much he likes me. Basically he asks me to hang out any moment I am not working. Hes is 30 and I am 25. One of this girlfriends introduced me to her friends when he wasnt around as his gf and i felt weird bc weve never really talked about it. I just wonder how i figure this out without having to look foolish. I dont want to waste my time and pass up other people if its n ot heading in that direction.

[Naughty_pencil]

Hey look im a guy and believe me, the best thing to do would be the next time ur with him, and has some alone time, just nicely tell him u wanna talk about something. and tell him how u feel. trust me hes not stupid, he knows what hes doing. and u have every right to bring it up. he would hate it, if it was the other way around.

 

if this guy wants to spend every minute with you, then u have all the power. just sit him down and sort it out and everyones happy. be firm and understanding at the same time.

 

[mas]

that is what im trying to avoid!!! dangit. theres no other way around this?

[mas]

. trust me hes not stupid, he knows what hes doing.

 

 

what do you mean he knows what hes doing?? like he only wants to be dating?

[xpaperxcutx]

that is what im trying to avoid!!! dangit. theres no other way around this?

 

Why are you scared about talking to him? Speaking up will at least get you an answer.