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It's Hard to Feel Motivated When You're Single/Celibate In College


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Don't post on my threads again.

 

 

I'll post wherever I want to.

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I can't even read what you're saying dude. You immediately made it to my ignore list. No one's ever done that before. Sorry.

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I can't even read what you're saying dude. You immediately made it to my ignore list. No one's ever done that before. Sorry.

 

 

Oh please, don't apologize.

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I've addressed this before.

 

I haven't stalked your threads, so a response here would be helpful.

 

Just answer me this.

 

Would you ever date a guy that's on the Sex Offender Registry?

 

How is that relevant to your conundrum? :confused:

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I haven't stalked your threads, so a response here would be helpful.

 

 

 

How is that relevant to your conundrum? :confused:

 

Hiring a prostitute is illegal, and in many states, like mine, it lands you on the sex offender registry. If you're caught with a prostitute, your put on the same blacklist as rapists and child molesters for the rest of your life.

 

Now do you understand why prostitution isn't an option?

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Hiring a prostitute is illegal, and in many states, like mine, it lands you on the sex offender registry. If you're caught with a prostitute, your put on the same blacklist as rapists and child molesters for the rest of your life.

 

Now do you understand why prostitution isn't an option?

 

Move to a different state, or visit Vegas.

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Move to a different state, or visit Vegas.

 

Do you have ANY idea how much a hooker costs?

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Do you have ANY idea how much a hooker costs?

 

$100/hour. I imagine you won't take that long.

 

Why haven't you tried the casual hookups section on Craigslist? Or AdultFriendFinder.com? They make me do this: :sick: but they sound like exactly what you're looking for.

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It's not giving me the option to PM you. Do you have PM disabled maybe? It doesn't show up when I click on your name on the left or when I go to your profile.

 

They took away my PM ability. I might get it back soon.

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$100/hour. I imagine you won't take that long.

 

Try $400-$500 an hour.

 

Why haven't you tried the casual hookups section on Craigslist? Or AdultFriendFinder.com? They make me do this: :sick: but they sound like exactly what you're looking for.

 

Read one of my previous threads (http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22888938)

 

I really can't tell if you're being serious. You've suggested that I either 1) break the law and risk become a social pariah for life or 2) quit my job, school, move to the other side of the country which would cost tens of thousands of dollars.

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You can try an escort. It'll cost more money, but they're likely to be cleaner than a hooker on the street.

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Read one of my previous threads (http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22888938)

 

I really can't tell if you're being serious. You've suggested that I either 1) break the law and risk become a social pariah for life or 2) quit my job, school, move to the other side of the country which would cost tens of thousands of dollars.

 

If you don't want to answer my questions, then I can't help you. AFF and Craigslist are two options for you, neither of which involve prostitutes.

 

Your POF profile doesn't read like you only want sex, BTW. You need to make that clear.

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If you don't want to answer my questions, then I can't help you. AFF and Craigslist are two options for you, neither of which involve prostitutes.

 

Your POF profile doesn't read like you only want sex, BTW. You need to make that clear.

 

That was an accident. I meant to post a link to my thread saying why AFF sucks. Here it is. (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t254000/)

 

And craigslist banned sex personals (not like there were any cute girls to begin with) Didn't you read the news?

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You can try an escort. It'll cost more money, but they're likely to be cleaner than a hooker on the street.

 

I'm not going to hire a prostitute! Just drop it people! Jeez!

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I'm not going to hire a prostitute! Just drop it people! Jeez!

 

 

Theoretically, an escort isn't much different than a relationship. Escorting someone isn't illegal. You're paying for sex, but you're also paying for a night of companionship. And having a girlfriend isn't any different because essentially, you're putting money into dates to eventually get her to open her legs.

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Try $400-$500 an hour.

 

 

 

Read one of my previous threads (http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22888938)

 

I really can't tell if you're being serious. You've suggested that I either 1) break the law and risk become a social pariah for life or 2) quit my job, school, move to the other side of the country which would cost tens of thousands of dollars.

 

 

Really just admit it, you're cheap. If prostitutes actually charge you less than $200, you can't deny you won't risk it.

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How old are you? If you are 21+, GO TO THE BAR. Surely there are loads of college bars near you with drunk horny girls. It cannot be this difficult to get laid in college. Are you coming off as totally desperate and/or creepy to these girls you approach? Honestly.

 

I totally disagree w/ the people saying that attractive girls only have NSA sex or ONS w/ uber good looking guys. That's not true at all, especially in a college environment. Lots of college aged girls are having promiscuous sex. I want to know what you are doing to try to get some for yourself. Do you go to parties?

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Really just admit it, you're cheap. If prostitutes actually charge you less than $200, you can't deny you won't risk it.

 

There aren't cheap prostitutes. Prostitutes (where they are legal) cost several hundred dollars. I'm in college. I work part time. How much money do you think I make?

 

I shouldn't have to pay for sex. A girl should have sex with me because she's attracted to me and enjoys sex as much as I do.

 

I don't even understand why you're still bringing this up. Like I said, prostitution is illegal. You're blacklisted for life if you're caught with a prostitute. Don't you understand that? Like I said, would YOU date someone on the Sex Offender Registry?

 

Please answer that deliberately, because this isn't a rhetorical question.

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How old are you? If you are 21+, GO TO THE BAR. Surely there are loads of college bars near you with drunk horny girls. It cannot be this difficult to get laid in college. Are you coming off as totally desperate and/or creepy to these girls you approach? Honestly.

 

I've used to go to the bar with my friends frequently. I even got to talk to a few girls, but my friends usually acted really nerdy and awkward and would scare some of these girls off. I tried going by myself but it's really hard to work up the courage to talk to girls when you're out on your own and have no support to fall back on. Plus, the lack of social proof can't look good to some of these girls. Some drunk girls can be really mean and judgemental.

 

I totally disagree w/ the people saying that attractive girls only have NSA sex or ONS w/ uber good looking guys. That's not true at all, especially in a college environment. Lots of college aged girls are having promiscuous sex. I want to know what you are doing to try to get some for yourself. Do you go to parties?

 

Not really. It's not that I don't want to. There are parties at this school, but I don't know anyone who hosts them or gets invited.

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$100/hour. I imagine you won't take that long.

 

 

:lmao::bunny:

 

Brilliant retort, Sir.

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Look, everyone is single sometime! It can be a good thing if you want it to be! Rather than lingering on this, why not find other ways to spend your time in the meantime while you wait to meet someone? Be proactive! Exercise is a good way to release excess energy and stress, and it is good for your health and appearance too! You can focus more on hobbies, or join a group or club, where you can meet others (friends and more) with similar interests. It's good to stay busy! It helps to keep the mind off of things like loneliness. If bars and nightclubs are your kind of place, go out there and have fun!

 

If you like your life and are happy, it will show, and you will naturally attract people. People love positivity! :) Remember, you have so much ahead of you! Patience is a virtue, and it can make things that much sweeter when you finally find what you've been looking for after a wait. :D

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