mayjane Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months and everything has always been perfect and we were planning on moving in alone together rather than with friends. We get all have laughs share interests and are always close in a way a perfect couple who never argues. We got into a bit of an argument for the first time a couple of weeks back as he felt like his feelings had changed like the spark had gone a bit. I explained that the spark does change but thats because we see each other and it doesnt mean we still don't fancy each other as well he also mentioned about panicking about been able to afford for us both to live together to cut a long story short we both got upset talked things through and he said he wanted to be with me forever and geta house and could imagine life without me. Then a couple of days later after this he told me that he thought he had feelings for someone else who he had met about 4 weeks ago max at work, he then decided to finish the relationship with me because of these feelings and thought he was falling for her?! Since then I have heard he has got with this girl, but Im confused to how he can just walk away so easily from our relationship as we didnt have any problems and just jump head in with this girl. Plus after the big conversation we had. Is this classed as a rebound relationship as he thought he had feelings with her while with me or is this lust? Im just so confused as he loved me so much and its just all gone wrong within 2 weeks. He hasnt cheated on me with this girl but has obvs hooked up with her after we finished. If anybody can help me out at that that would be great. Also this girl he has hooked up with was seeing his cousin 3 weeksago and cried on my boyfriends shoulder over the cousin. Any help or advice would be great...
Author mayjane Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 The title was supposed to say confused but it's cut it off for some reason
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