WowReally Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 I have the notes hanging infront of me now that remind me to stay away and why... Yesterday he admitted he was going to keep up the facade that moving back home was a good idea and that he's been loyal to his wife even though he has not for the last 3 weeks. He's still lying to the M.C and not volunteering information to his I.C which is a step backwards in my mind. The M.C will be coming to an end soon apparently and Im sure the I.C conclusion will be quick to follow. *sigh* I never realize how broken he really was until now. It's sad...truly sad. He'll cheat again too. Im not sure who's more moronic...him or the wife who keeps taking him back. Ready to move on and excited to open myself up to a new way of life!
YellowShark Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 He's still lying to the M.C and not volunteering information to his I.C which is a step backwards in my mind. The M.C will be coming to an end soon apparently and Im sure the I.C conclusion will be quick to follow. *sigh* I never realize how broken he really was until now. It's sad...truly sad. He'll cheat again too. Im not sure who's more moronic...him or the wife who keeps taking him back. What?!?! Cheaters lie and withhold truths? Say it ain't so! Ready to move on and excited to open myself up to a new way of life! I wish you strength and the best of luck! And you are right, your life is now your own again! Make the best of it!
greengoddess Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Does his wife know he cheated? Were they in marriage councelling for the cheating or a marital breakdown of another form? His wife has no reason not to take him back home if she thinks the councelling worked. Maybe you could bring this all to the light of day for her so she can stop living a lie unbeknownst to her.
Author WowReally Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 Does his wife know he cheated? Were they in marriage councelling for the cheating or a marital breakdown of another form? His wife has no reason not to take him back home if she thinks the councelling worked. Maybe you could bring this all to the light of day for her so she can stop living a lie unbeknownst to her. They aren't young kids - they've been married a long time and he's cheated on her multiple times and she still takes him back. They went to marriage counseling for multiple reasons but cheating on her again was a big reason. They still have issues but somethings just aren't meant to be fixed. They both want the lifestyle...so the lifestyle they shall have minus the key ingredients their marriage lacks. Not my issue - I told him yesterday that he wasn't good for me and pretty much told him to "f" off after he admitted he was still going to hide the truth from the counselors. I dont have the time or energy for liars and cheaters anymore.
endlessness Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Good for you! I hope you will stick with this decision. I don't know how you could ever be attracted to THAT. But, then again, who am I to judge...
phillyfan Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 I have the notes hanging infront of me now that remind me to stay away and why... Yesterday he admitted he was going to keep up the facade that moving back home was a good idea and that he's been loyal to his wife even though he has not for the last 3 weeks. He's still lying to the M.C and not volunteering information to his I.C which is a step backwards in my mind. The M.C will be coming to an end soon apparently and Im sure the I.C conclusion will be quick to follow. *sigh* I never realize how broken he really was until now. It's sad...truly sad. He'll cheat again too. Im not sure who's more moronic...him or the wife who keeps taking him back. Ready to move on and excited to open myself up to a new way of life! Dude it is not a facade, he woudnt be there unless he wanted to b. I Guarantee he is doin ANYTHIN to get that lady back on side, he loves her and thats that, he cant imagin his life without her. Stop believin all the bullcrap he feeds u, stop bein down on the wife shes done nothin to you, and leave the sad old man and go find someone betta.
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