Lucky555 Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 I have posted about my ex how he keeps contacting me. Lately he had been contacting me a lot then he suddenly started flirting a lot! I am confused because he told me he didn't want anything long term awhile ago and we went our separate ways. Now out of the blue he starts acting like there is a "we". There has been now asking me out. Is he just playing me? It's what it looks like. I though not to pressure him and thought he would have said something this week but he is not which leaves me think it's him being a jerk. I don't know what to think. I was fine till he really stepped up the flirting ... Is there anything I can say to say either you are serious or don't flirt because if u do I will not tolerate it I don't enjoy being played.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 So he just decided one day to break up with no explanation? Are you sure he wasn't just making room for himself to tap another's ass but couldn't score, hence he's back? I'd be wary of an ex like that.
Author Lucky555 Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 Good point. We broke up the fast foward month ago I needed to know why he was contacting me and asked what he wanted which he said he didn't see anything long term so I said I didn't want that kind of thing with him. So we went out separate ways but then he stated talking again and then out of the blue now he starts really flirting with me. I'm confused and I feel like he is trying to play me. Think I should just not reply and have him leave me aone. I guess I was Waiting t see if he would make above this week but it's been four days and he doesn't care obviously. If he was serious I would think he would ask me out or talk about him and I. In his conversation it sounded like he was "with" me and kept saying "we" but ya.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Good point. We broke up the fast foward month ago I needed to know why he was contacting me and asked what he wanted which he said he didn't see anything long term so I said I didn't want that kind of thing with him. So we went out separate ways but then he stated talking again and then out of the blue now he starts really flirting with me. I'm confused and I feel like he is trying to play me. Think I should just not reply and have him leave me aone. I guess I was Waiting t see if he would make above this week but it's been four days and he doesn't care obviously. If he was serious I would think he would ask me out or talk about him and I. In his conversation it sounded like he was "with" me and kept saying "we" but ya. I'd ditch him. Don't be anyone's second best.
Author Lucky555 Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 Thanks I figured someone could ready this and see what's going on. Clearly he is playing me as usual I just have to run as fast as I can while I'm happy and I have already been getting over the break up it's like he goes away then comes back it's a cycle. I need stability someone who is always there. Thanks
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