samsungxoxo Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 (edited) Honestly, I don't feel like being with a man that is too much of a challenge or questions often about anything. Well I don't really like authoritive figures for the most part nor getting ordered. Lastly, I'm no one's shrink. If someone is an individual with deeper issues then I'm not going to waste my time thinking ''Oh what if I changed them'' (another worthless hassle where I could use that time to worry about something else). Alright everyone (men and women) have you ever actually been with someone submissive? Was it fun that you had the upperhand most of the times? Edited November 18, 2010 by samsungxoxo
D-Lish Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 My ex husband was submissive in the sense that he never called me out on my bad behaviour. It wasn't fun for me. The best balance for me is someone that treats me really well, but draws the line at putting up with me when I'm not behaving properly. If someone won't put up with my crap, I won't pull it. I like being with someone that asserts their boundaries because if I know they are serious about their boundaries, I won't dare cross them.
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