chancellor Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 This may seem like a silly question but bear in mind I am young and inexperienced. This girl I've been hanging out with told me she has feelings for me but if she weren't already dating someone she would probably date me. Do you think this girl is having an emotional affair or just using me?
windows Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 As a rule of thumb I think you should run. Never get involved with someone who's already taken in any way. That's just my advice. I've never practically applied this advice though so if someone does have experience in this, feel free to rebut me.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I have been in your shoes in this same situation before. She was a friend of mine for a year and half and we had sex for 6 weeks before she moved back home(where her bf lived). It was an emotional rollercoaster that ended up crashing into a freight train. My advice is don't get your hopes up and keep your emotional distance. Treat her as a fling/**** buddy and continue looking for other women.
NoLongerSad Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Tell her that before you get involved with a girl you have a rule that she has to give you a bj first, so you can decide if you will be sexually compatible.
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