sacredheart Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Hi everyone - this is a general question relating to sex. My girlfriend and I were having a chat about it last night. When a man goes down on a woman is there a certaini "scent" that lingers afterwards? For a few days possibly? As you all know I'm having major issues in my relationship and she is as well. I know that when him and I have been intimate in that way and he's kissed me afterwards there has been a "scent" that I notice. I've noticed this scent on him other times when we haven't been intimate so was wondering if the scent can "linger" or does that mean that he's probably has been doing that to someone else? I mean, would it smell the exact same as me? I know most of you know my story and the infidelity but I'm just asking in general as well... Looking forward to your thoughts...
NoLongerSad Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 he's probably has been doing that to someone else
eminembnja Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 It can linger, but it probably won't smell exactly the same. Washing would remove it, however, so if he has be doing it to other women, he is very bold.
MichiganMan222 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 If he has showered between the time he went down and the time you caught the scent, it's someone else's. BTW, what a d-bag for a) going down on a different girl and b) kissing you afterwards without washing up. That's nasty.
Maggotface Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Are there any other signs that he might be seeing someone else? Maybe you're just being paranoid, don't jump to conclusions and keep an eye out for other signs. Keep track of how many condoms you guys have, if he's staying out night or keeps his phone locked.
TheLoveAdvisor Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 I watched a show a long time ago on tv that mentioned when people have sex, their scent puts out some sort of protective seal around them for a certain amount of time.. This scent-seal subconsciously catches the smell sensor's of others around them protecting them from others.... So, its possible you are indeed smelling some kind of phermone.... However, you need more to go on, but this does make sense...I think I saw it on Oprah....
Feelin Frisky Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 Anyone believe in hygeine? I mean, seriously. Sure, scents are going to stick around on someone else's body. But we don't have out houses, chamber pots or have to go down by the river anymore to tidy up. Maybe I'm weird but the first thing I do after having made love is wash the hell up. I can't begin to speculate if someone walks around with pubic juices stewing around their mouths for long periods after sex. That's cave life.
MichiganMan222 Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 I doubt cavemen went down much. Cavewomen probably had a whole other ecosystem going on down there. eesh.
You'reasian Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 But we don't have out houses, chamber pots or have to go down by the river... Well.....I live in a van down by the river!
jerbear Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 The scent can last awhile, at least for me. I can wash all I want and I can still smell her on me. The thing is, if you smell something; it should smell like you. If you two have not been intimtate for a few days, like 2 or 3, then there is something wrong.
Seamless74 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 one of if not the dumbest threads ive ever read on here...
Feelin Frisky Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 one of if not the dumbest threads ive ever read on here... Kinda. Like what are ya supposed to do? Wife: Is that my pussy I smell on your chin? Me: No. I don't know whose it is but it's not yours.
scatterd Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 I wash before and after and so does my husband.If he had a smell on him I would assume it was someone else and he did not wash.I would be pissed to think he would kiss me after wards that's plain nasty.So if he does the same as far as washing sense you then yes its someone else.
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