ICE911 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Hi, Need some advice here... I'll try and keep this pretty short. I met my ex gf back in January 2010. Prior to meeting her I had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship with another women...which was way to stressful. Anyways, I was a reckless in the beginning and cheated on the her. I'm not going to give excuses...I know I was wrong and I'm paying the price for it. Anyways, she had obviously broke up with me after she heard the news but decided to take a chance on me. Things were great and back on track. I had noticed that she started getting distant with me and would tell me that nothing is wrong. However, she eventually broke up with me because she said she could not get over the fact that I cheated in January. This was September when she broke up with me. So at first I tried to win her back in all the wrong ways until I smartened up and won her back the right way (early October). She had wanted me to step up to the plate....and I did. I took her to meet my mom, which she was so happy to do. When she had come down to see me, we started having sex and she told me that she wants to get back together and that if I wanted to have a baby with her. Also, she said she would have married me in a heart beat. Things were going fantastic and I was feeling on top of the world. She started asking me over to her place more often and we spent great times together. Then she started to get distant again. I asked her whats wrong...she said nothing. Then a couple of days later she said she just cant get over when I cheated in January and regreted saying she wanted to get back together. I knew this was to good to be true. It has now been 3 weeks since we have been apart. I really love this women and feel hopeless this time around. I feel that the best thing to do is give her TIME and hope she realises one day that she can forgive me 100% and get back together for the long haul. She is kinda like hot and cold....I tried the NC rule and she would initiate texts and I would reply. She will get mad if I dont reply to her texts right away, although she will deny being mad on phone. Also, she assumes that I for sure have been screwing aeround already...which is so not the case. This women has broken my heart. Any advice on how to get her back or if there is any hope at all anymore? Or is TIME the only thing left? I am willing to fight 1 more time but then thats it for me. I relaise that she has to want to be in this relationship and not just me in order for it to work. Thanks,
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Link to your latest thread: Think GF is Losing Interest
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