nice-easy-day Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I've been seeing a girl for a little over a month. Everything started out really great! Now things are starting to fade a bit and if something doesn't turn around soon it will be over. I think she's either becoming bored with me or is interested in someone else. I'm starting to feel I've been put on the hook. I want to save this before it becomes too late. I see two main options that I could do. Just wondering what you guys think is the best route. 1. Back off or go No Contact and let her chase me a little bit to see where she is at. Make a situation where she has the chance to miss me and give space for her to make up her mind if she wants to continue. 2. Just let the whole thing fade but remain friends. If my feelings for her don't go away then remain a secret admirer hoping that someday she might develop feelings for me. In the meantime date other women also. Sounds like a painful thing to go through. Anyone have luck with this one?
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Sorry this went unanswered. Since it was posted a while ago, hope the situation has been resolved.
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