crida Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 (edited) I would like to tell you my story since its driving me crazy... My mother was always dominat towards me and overprotecting. During my life, my mom always critisised my friends and boyfriends. No one was enough for me...They were too poor, too uneducated, too short etc. I am 30 years old, i studied and have a good job. i used to live in a small apartment my parents have. For mom, all my girlfriends were "bad girls" and i was just told not to hang out with them. My boyfriends, unless they were rich, they wouldn't make me happy. 1.5 years ago, i met my boyfriend. My mom disliked the fact that he was divorced and didnt have a good income. Even though my bf was really kind to them, and mom seemed to be ok everytime they were meet, she kept on telling me to brake up with him, cause he is poor and he wanted me for my fortune ( just one house!!!). My BF was always trying to go along well with my mom, but as soon as things were going ok, my mom was still destroying that. 6 months ago my BF came to my apartment to live although it was too small. My mom got crazy over this. So during our summer vacations, my mom tried to reach me over my mobile, since their house was almost to burn due to a fire that came up.My signal was not good, and after 1 hour, i called her and she started cursing on me, telling me that my BF didnt let me to speak to her, that she didnt want to see me again and that she wanted us to leave the house.... 4 days after that incident we came back from vacations. As soon as i entered my house, my mom called me and she told me that i had one month to find another apartment. I hang up the phone full of tears. My bf saw me and after such a lovely vacation he got mad! My mom called again and for once, he picked up the phone. He told her that it was not fair to make me cry all the time, that he would leave the house since he didnt want to have any relation with them. Ever since my mom wants him dead!. She keep telling how he dared to scream at her and insult her inside her house and that he will destroy my life. We moved to another house, but i keep having problems since mom accuses him all the time for the way he left the apartment ( My BF left so hurt from there, that he didnt put the old tv back in place). My mom keep telling me that i dont see how mean and evil he is, and believe me, my BF has a pure heart. He is supportive, and although he couldn't afford, he manage to rent a house for us two. Today we had a fight with mom, cause he didnt covered the remote control from dust. I screamed at my BF who was so recless and he said that he cannot be with me anymore due to this situation.... I called mom to tell her that i broke up because of her and she accused me of being unfair and blind. I cannot live like that anymore. I love my BF I love my Mom but i dont want to cry every day....i hate when christmas come.... Edited November 17, 2010 by crida unsolved problems....
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I'm sorry your post went unanswered. Is there an update to your situation?
stepkidkevin Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Is your mom a really materialistic type? She kind of seems it. Your bf seems like a good guy but having a mom who hates his guts might be a hurdle too big to get over.
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