bks22 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I've been with my boyfriend over a year. We had a really rough patch during the fourth month, but we both figured it was because we had moved in together way too fast and we needed to figure things out. We told each other we loved one another, but we were forgetting how to be in love. We worked really hard and eventually everything worked itself out and we became happy and in love again. Recently he's become distant, we had a lot of fights last week and I think because of these his mind has been completely reset about me. Everything I say he takes as if i'm being mean, or that i'm criticizing him, but i'm honestly just stating things as I always have. I feel like he's falling out of love with me, and I don't want to be in a bad relationship, but in no way do i want to break up with him. A lot of me feels like he wants to leave me but he just doesn't have the courage to. I know he cares about me and doesn't want to hurt me, but how do I stay in a relationship if I feel like the love isn't reciprocated? Should I just wait it out and see if things get better like they did before? or should I take the initiative and talk to him about how things aren't the best and maybe we should go our separate ways? This is the only guy i've thought about spending the rest of my life with and I feel like i'm losing in a big way.
Tim The Enchanter Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I don't think sitting back and doing nothing is a sensible option for you. You guys need to sit down and talk.
utterer of lies Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I feel like he's falling out of love with me, and I don't want to be in a bad relationship, but in no way do i want to break up with him. A lot of me feels like he wants to leave me but he just doesn't have the courage to. I know he cares about me and doesn't want to hurt me, but how do I stay in a relationship if I feel like the love isn't reciprocated? Should I just wait it out and see if things get better like they did before? or should I take the initiative and talk to him about how things aren't the best and maybe we should go our separate ways? This is the only guy i've thought about spending the rest of my life with and I feel like i'm losing in a big way. Talk to him?
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