youbeauty Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Been seeing this girl who has a really hectic schedule, split between work and sports coaching (early morning and on weekends), for about 3-4 weeks now. Have worked around it with success thus far, and I have been patient given I can work ridiculous hours from time to time as well. So we normally catch up once or twice each week, which is fine, and she had mentined that she wanted to take it slow, which is also fine. Had been in touch with her to catch up this weekend but got a response saying that she was going to be really busy with work and her coaching this week and on Saturday so the weekend was likely not going to be possible. Which is fine, as I know she devotes some time to catching up with her family each weekend as well. And on the end of her response, she said that she expected it to be really busy like this for a while unfortunately. But she didn't make any comment in terms of when she would be free to catch up next. Is it likely that I'm politely being shown the door here?
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 A link to your latest thread: Online dating thoughts?
Movingthrough Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Been seeing this girl who has a really hectic schedule, split between work and sports coaching (early morning and on weekends), for about 3-4 weeks now. Have worked around it with success thus far, and I have been patient given I can work ridiculous hours from time to time as well. So we normally catch up once or twice each week, which is fine, and she had mentined that she wanted to take it slow, which is also fine. Had been in touch with her to catch up this weekend but got a response saying that she was going to be really busy with work and her coaching this week and on Saturday so the weekend was likely not going to be possible. Which is fine, as I know she devotes some time to catching up with her family each weekend as well. And on the end of her response, she said that she expected it to be really busy like this for a while unfortunately. But she didn't make any comment in terms of when she would be free to catch up next. Is it likely that I'm politely being shown the door here? Im in a similar situation with a girl that is doing the typical busy thing, this morning actually i said are we still on for this week and she said i just remembered i had this or that to do. So i said, well looks like this isnt going to happen so if it i dont hear from you i will get the hint. Its harsh but in your situation there is no point to wait around, i would basically say well since you seem so busy let me know if or when you wanna hang out, bye. Problem is with guys is we are supposed to "push" and make things happen but most girls beat around the bush and we dont know what to do. Not knocking them but they always try to be nice it seems. I wouldnt sit on it much longer to be honest.
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