that girl Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 She does sound rude and she's a bit pretentious, and I've been around the dating block enough to know that a relationship is NOT what I want, let alone with a girl like her. It'll just make it that much sweeter if/when I do get the best of her one night If she decides to screw you, that is you getting to best of her? Or are you planning on roofie-ing her? I hope she's coming to the bar just get some free drinks and possibly steal your wallet.
Surrealist Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 If she decides to screw you, that is you getting to best of her? Or are you planning on roofie-ing her? I hope she's coming to the bar just get some free drinks and possibly steal your wallet. You're not merely bitter, you are angry and vindictive. Your vengeful laden posts show that very clearly.
Yvelysse Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 She did admit why she flaked. Reasons sound bogus: better odds of me ****ing her at some point than if I had never met her. Calling her out and a flake was a low risk/high reward scenario, I had NOTHING to lose, so I did it. Now my chance of tapping that ass just doubled. Maybe odds are still small, but it's better than trying to bone a girl you've never met. She does sound rude and she's a bit pretentious, and I've been around the dating block enough to know that a relationship is NOT what I want, let alone with a girl like her. It'll just make it that much sweeter if/when I do get the best of her one night hee hee Lawls to ya! Go for eet! But now for mah question. will it work IF I'm Bitchy to a guy?
fishtaco Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 If she decides to screw you, that is you getting to best of her? Or are you planning on roofie-ing her? I hope she's coming to the bar just get some free drinks and possibly steal your wallet. Whoa, chill, this is just part of the game. If they have sex, guess what? She'll enjoy it too. It's not like women don't enjoy sex. Some people act like when sex happens, it's all for the benefit of the man. As long as it's consensual, have fun, to him and to her. She already said she doesn't want clingy men, sound to me like she wants to play. I'm guessing you don't play this way. Good for you. I bet you're also not rude like that girl is. So for you, playing around and getting you in bed would not be right, and I'm sure you would stand up for yourself and tell the guy no. But remember, you are you, you are not her, we don't know what she wants. So don't superimpose yourself on her. I bet if the OP met you, he would treat you differently. I would, if you're not flaky and rude like her, you would have more of my respect. I treat different people differently, depending on how much I respect them, and how much they've earned my trust. I don't think that's uncommon. As for the OP, he's playing the right game. If he's knee deep in the dating game, depending on his goals, I'd say ignore her, she's not worth your time. But since he stepped out, then why not? It's not like it's costing him opportunity with another woman to play around with this one. Every interaction like this is training, even if it doesn't get anywhere. The more training you have, the better you'll get at it. Dating is like anything else, it's not anything that's magical. It's an activity. It could lead to love, which I would be cheesy and say yes that is magical, I've been there myself. But until love happens, it's all just fun and games. And I learned that from women, so men do not have the monopoly on the "fun and games" part. This is how the world turns. Can't deal with it, don't play.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Whoa, chill, this is just part of the game. If they have sex, guess what? She'll enjoy it too. It's not like women don't enjoy sex. Some people act like when sex happens, it's all for the benefit of the man. As long as it's consensual, have fun, to him and to her. She already said she doesn't want clingy men, sound to me like she wants to play. I'm guessing you don't play this way. Good for you. I bet you're also not rude like that girl is. So for you, playing around and getting you in bed would not be right, and I'm sure you would stand up for yourself and tell the guy no. But remember, you are you, you are not her, we don't know what she wants. So don't superimpose yourself on her. I bet if the OP met you, he would treat you differently. I would, if you're not flaky and rude like her, you would have more of my respect. I treat different people differently, depending on how much I respect them, and how much they've earned my trust. I don't think that's uncommon. As for the OP, he's playing the right game. If he's knee deep in the dating game, depending on his goals, I'd say ignore her, she's not worth your time. But since he stepped out, then why not? It's not like it's costing him opportunity with another woman to play around with this one. Every interaction like this is training, even if it doesn't get anywhere. The more training you have, the better you'll get at it. Dating is like anything else, it's not anything that's magical. It's an activity. It could lead to love, which I would be cheesy and say yes that is magical, I've been there myself. But until love happens, it's all just fun and games. And I learned that from women, so men do not have the monopoly on the "fun and games" part. This is how the world turns. Can't deal with it, don't play. You should have posted this in this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t253774/
Recommended Posts