OceanGirl Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Yeah well it's only 3 days. All I am hoping for the 3 days is that he doesn't cancel
Star Gazer Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Yeah well it's only 3 days. All I am hoping for the 3 days is that he doesn't cancel And you know in the 3 days before this 2nd date that it's perfectly normal not to hear from him, right???
Ariadne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 On one hand, I would feel relief to walk away with some dignity and not have to think about this situation any longer. On the other hand, I worry that I may miss something great due to some form of miss-communication. Ahhhhhhh!!!!! Ok, you blew this guy off two times already. First he asked you out on the weekend and you told him you'd be busy and couldn't make it. Maybe next week. Next week came, you guys set the date, and then you tell him you can't make it either. (I know you are sick, you are having the same thing I had for a long time, hmm) By now this guy thinks your are totally flaking on him and doesn't know if you are interested or not and probably not taking you seriously already. The only way would be to make it to the date and that he'd get an impression that you are genuinely interested in him. But with all the advice in this board (shivers) and the tendencies, I doubt something good is going to come out of this. Good luck though.
Ariadne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Most people are going to at the very least feel that the sick excuse is just that, an excuse. In order for him to feel confident enough to see you again, you really do have to put in effort. Phew! Thank you!
Ariadne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Or do you guys think it's too late now? Not if you make it on Monday. If you don't then this is a joke.
OceanGirl Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 I will make it on Monday and it's gonna go great..yep.
Surrealist Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Are SadAndConfusedWA and OceanGirl one and the same people?? Sorry Im confused.
OceanGirl Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Are SadAndConfusedWA and OceanGirl one and the same people?? Sorry Im confused. Haha yeah, SAC was my former user name that I now find too negative and depressing - so I opened a new one: OceanGirl. I still receive some PMs on SAC so I log in every now and again. Out of curiosity: do you have a profile on any of the online dating sites?
Surrealist Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Haha yeah, SAC was my former user name that I now find too negative and depressing - so I opened a new one: OceanGirl. I still receive some PMs on SAC so I log in every now and again. Out of curiosity: do you have a profile on any of the online dating sites? Yeah I do, you might of seen my pics around on one or two sites. I think one was match? I also tried a couple of naughty sites. I didn't find them helpful at all so I don't worry about them anymore. Not to be negative, but there are many fake / obsolete profiles and women just do not respond, as I discovered from reading here, because they get so many messages.
OceanGirl Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Yeah I do, you might of seen my pics around on one or two sites. I think one was match? I also tried a couple of naughty sites. I didn't find them helpful at all so I don't worry about them anymore. Not to be negative, but there are many fake / obsolete profiles and women just do not respond, as I discovered from reading here, because they get so many messages. I probably haven't seen you... I am only on OKCupid. You should totally make an account there - it's a free site.
Surrealist Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 I probably haven't seen you... I am only on OKCupid. You should totally make an account there - it's a free site. Yeah I will have a look now you mention it is free.
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