irc333 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I have noticed that SOME women are recpetive to being approached, IF you are BOTH participating in the SAME activity in the SAME environment. Don't talk about the weather, talk about what you're doing i.e. - if you're at a bookstore placing an order for something at the coffe shop, if a cute girl next to you is doing the same thing, the conversation better ENTAIL the same thing. If it's waiting in a long line at a grocery store....then it better be about groceries or cooking. Right now...I can think of two BETTER places or maybe 3, but the 2 are probably the most relaxing. 1. Coffee shop at a bookstore - in my case, it was nice quiet evening, people were chilling out, looking through magazines, lounging around, reading books. One one situation, I was in line and I placed an order for some coffee, there was only one cashier so I had to wait for my coffee at the counter like the others were waiting. This attractive woman approaches the counter after me, while I'm waiting....and she orders some "Pumpkin Spice..." type of coffee...and then she stands there waiting...in quiet situations like that, I sometimes even feel obligated to strike up a conversation. So I said to her, and this was no cheesy pick up line, but it actually had SOMETHING to do with the coffee shop experience...."Hm, Pumpkin Spice, I never had that, what's it like..." She kind of looks at me though, gave me this "why is this guy trying to talk to me look" and was quite short and abrupt with me and just said, "It's good" and then looks back at the coffee counter, not trying to encourage more conversation. (I thought to myself "Snob!") (note,, you better have a REASON to approach a woman in an enviroment, and it HAS to have something to with what you're BOTH doing at the SAME time, in this case ordering coffee). Another thing, if you're in college, well, you BOTH have reason to be in college. When I was in school, study areas were open 24/7 on campus, the comptuer lab was a great place to meet the ladies, or the commons area even. Sometimes what'd I'd like to do, instead of studying in my dorm room, I'd do it out in a computer lab....I mean, they could be cooped up studying in their own rooms at home or in their dorms....which means, since they're out in public....they MIGHT be (subconsiously) open to being approached. These are the 2 places that I can think of that women might be MOST willing to BE approached. I've also often thought bout ANY situation where a woman is just sitting alone...like eating in a cafe court or something...but my 2 earlier, I would have to say are the BEST bet....anyone in agreement?
Mad Max Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 It has nothing to do with places. If she finds you attractive, it won't matter what the location is.
ReturnToSender Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Id like to be approached anywhere. I actually have my days where I force myself to go *anywhere* cause I know Im not going to meet anyone if Im sitting at home. So a quick trip to the grocery store, a cup of coffee at a deli, and going to the post office instead of just dropping my mail off in the box at my corner...all a ruse to mentally say "hi! Im in public! approach me!" lol... Seriously though, anywhere. And yeah, I actually do go out and do that.
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