jessy1 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 (edited) So basically I fell in love with an ultimate player and got fooled Things were perfect between us for a month, we saw each other everyday, txtd each other every two seconds etc. He feed me some unbelieveably good bull and I totally fell for it!! Anyway one night he doesn't call or reply to my messages and I get to work the next day to find out he slept with someone else. I was SO hurt. I stopped all contact with him and pretty much avoided him at work. I never went nuts at him but I think it was pretty obvious I was angry!! Anyway he came round and assured me it never happened and it was all just a nasty rumour. He txtd me and grovelled a fair bit and eventually I came around and we started getting along well again. We spent one good night together laughing and joking as usual, I get to work the next day and again find out he has slept with another girl that night. This one broke my heart When he heard that I knew about it (through someone else) he became really angry at me. He wouldnt talk to me or look at me unless it was to give me an evil stare. I have no idea why! Its not like I did anything wrong!! During these two or so days I just stayed totally away from him and never tried to talk to him or anything either, but I wasn't bitter or nasty. Anyway (main part I need advice with here) I just couldnt be bothered with the sadness and the bitterness between us so when he came around I started talking to him as a normal friend. Ive stopped txting him but I have to see him at work. We have conversations alot at work but neither of us have ever talked about 'us' or him sleeping around. My main question here is am I doing this right? He has hurt me so much shouldn't I be going nuts at him and not speaking to him??! Am I just being a door mat by talking to him as a normal friend? The main reason I do it is cause I just cannot be bothered hurting and fighting with someone. Today I watched him chat up some girl right infront of me and honestly almost snapped the pencil in half that I was holding with rage. Anyway basically I just wanna know if im doing the right thing. How should I be acting around him? And how do I cope when I see him chatting all these girls up? It honestly breaks my heart every time and I wanna go over there and punch him in the face!! Help!! Edited November 17, 2010 by jessy1
Eternity001 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Sounds like a charming fellow. I'd say be thankful you got out after a month. Act normal, don't show that you're enraged and if he talks to you be short but civil, don't make an effort to talk to him or initiate anything. Pity you work with him otherwise I would have said stay away from him entirely. OR you could just punch him in the face,that'd make for some quality office viewing
jerbear Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Better yet, play him. Go to a hotel, get him to undress, take his clothes and leave the hotel. :lmao:
nice-easy-day Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Better yet, play him. Go to a hotel, get him to undress, take his clothes and leave the hotel. :lmao: Yeah why not play him? Normally I would say games are cruel but in this case the guy deserves it. Whatever makes you feel happy at work and gives you kicks, do it. Don't let this @**hole make your life miserable.
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