What do you need or what will it take for you to close this chapter with him or her?

[fun2bewith]

What are the questions you need answered for you to close the chapter?

 

What are the things that need to be said or done in order for you to close the door?

 

Think about the security doors at the bank, you can't open the next door before you haven't properly closed the previous one...

[LoveTruthChaos]

It would be nice if he apologised.

That would really be the end of all the questions for me.

Unfortunately, he never apologised, not ONCE during the 20 months we were together. So I'll never hear it.

 

*sigh*

[Fouts]

You can't dwell on it. Quite often those questions remain unanswered forever. You just have to move on and realize that any pasture will be a greener one.

[PegNosePete]

A Decree Absolute and a Consent Order will do nicely.

[bl22]

It would be nice if he apologised.

That would really be the end of all the questions for me.

Unfortunately, he never apologised, not ONCE during the 20 months we were together. So I'll never hear it.

 

*sigh*

 

My ex apologised loads after our breakup, it didnt make things easier or helped. It just made me think well if you're sorry why you stil doing this.

[YellowShark]

 

What are the things that need to be said or done in order for you to close the door?

It would be nice if he apologised.

That would really be the end of all the questions for me.

Unfortunately, he never apologised, not ONCE during the 20 months we were together. So I'll never hear it.

 

*sigh*

 

Same here. It would be nice if she would apologize for her affairs. Instead she denies to anyone who will listen that I even caught her and MM in-the-act. Go figure.

[nowwhatnow]

my ex also apologized for hurting me but never told me why. I mean, it was almost two year you would think he would tell me why he is doing this. We were practically living together for a year - even though we both had our separate places.

 

I just do not think I can ever get over this one, and mostly it is because I do not want to. I can not picture myself with anyone else but him. Ever.

 

And so although I have moved on so to speak in other aspects of my life and don't hurt AS much, I am in a constant state of waiting; waiting for him to come around I guess. I just don't know if he ever will :S

[ohno89]

Apparently, all the things I want or need are completely out of my control. They're all things he could say or do but he's definitely not going to anytime soon so I need to stop thinking them. But if I could pick some...it would be an apology, and ideally some remorse for what he did to me and to us. I think it would help me a lot as well if I met someone to genuinely take my mind off my ex and someone I could really start to like who could help me move on.

Edited November 17, 2010 by ohno89

[9Lives]

I know my ex isn't man enough to say I'm sorry and I shoudnt hae treated u that way would be nice. but its not going happen. he already fking someone else and living his life not looking back. I just feel like he left me like trash after 5 years.

[paixe]

Why? How? When?

 

And how could she not know the answers? And how could I have never seen it coming? I was effing PERFECT. How DARE she do this to me and to us? To our life that I was already working towards. I changed everything in my world to accommodate her. How could she just give up so easily? How did it go from fairytale to The End and how did I completely miss the change?