mannpho Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 It's now over months since she dumped me. I have had periods where I would pour out everything to her via text, email even on the phone. IShe responded very negatively on the things i didn't do for her which is another post. She broke up with in the car after our vacation to Canada in the car. Here's my dilema 2 weeks ago I tried again finally she calls me and says that she will call me and possibly go out with. Again for the third time no call, no response from tex message. I even called her and it went to voicemail. Is she F**#K with my head? Does she want to but is still on the fence. Any advise would be great. I have been in therapy now over this with meds. I drink every night to where I pass out and my son a cop finds me in the back yard past out. My life sucks and wish I had the strength to end it.
GorillaTheater Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 You have got to take a deep breath and get a grip on yourself. She's not doing anything to you, you're doing all of this to yourself and you have to Just Stop. Stop contacting her. I read your backstory, and she sure seemed like she was a pretty lousy girlfriend. The logical part of you knows that you're better off without her. Get on with your life, and knock off the drinking. You've had some hard knocks, with the MS and your wife dying. I may be out of line, but I want you to think about something: what would your wife think about all of this? What would she want for you? What would she think about the path you're on? Honor her memory by honoring yourself.
crazykindalove Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 aww, well whatever shes thinking.. you can do so much better than her! you deserve someone who really wants to be with you and she clearly doesnt have this desire adn is messing you around. be strong and move on, there is someone for you out there but she is not the one, its not meant to be.
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