Andymack Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I've been split up with my gf of 2 years (she broke it off) for 4 months and she still has a lot of my stuff at her place. I've been trying to get her to give it back to me and she always says that she will and hasn't yet and i think she might be using it as a way for me to keep contacting her as she has arranged to do it a couple of times and then cancelled with pretty flimsy excuses. I was going to get it when she's not in and her sister is (they live together) and was gonna go NC until she contacts me (if ever) but was wondering if I should take her a letter explaining my feelings on the relationship and why it ended. She said that she didn't feel the same way she used to due to certain things I did n the relationship (not making her feel special & lying about money(which wasn't actually true)) I want to make her aware of why I acted in certain ways and did stuff so she understands but was wondering if there was any point and I should just go get my stuff and then go NC and if i write a letter is there anything i should include/leave out? Thanks in advance
Author Andymack Posted November 19, 2010 Author Posted November 19, 2010 No takers, huh? Ok, different question. If your ex had an impression of you that wasn't true, would you just go NC or would you write a letter to explain stuff that happened in the relationship then go NC?
ARISthess Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Not sure what the 'correct' answer here is... but i would write the letter (or probably try to do it in person) and get the stuff off my chest.
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