bl22 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Hey guys, I've been thinking every now and again about my recent relationship with my ex and wondered what you guys think. Since I was her first serious relationship, her first time sexually, the first person not to ditch her...maybe it was inevitable she'd get the g.i.g.s She had only even kissed 2 people before me and we're both 22. Girls like that are usualy ugly as hell but damn she was absolutely perfect, she could easily be a model. I've had tons of relationships before her, and I can honestly say without doubt ours was the best. By a million miles, and she was always the 1 who shown how happy she was. Is it possible these days for a woman to only ever have 1 man in there life forever and not think theyre missing out? I miss her like crazy and I'd be lying if i didnt say id take her back in time when I'm in a better place and so is she. She was an absolute angel throughout our relationship, I have nothing but good to say about her up until start of october when she reveals she has feelings for someone else. I stil have so much stuff I wanted to experience with her, I'll never find anyone who will share the same interests as us again. I think she is/will regret leaving me when she realises most relationships aint too special but what we had was.
Iselia Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Is it possible these days for a woman to only ever have 1 man in there life forever and not think theyre missing out? Well, my ex and I were both women but I'll try to answer this. She was my first and I was completely happy with her. I would have married her right after college if that she what she would have wanted. But, I was also her first and she decided that she wants other experiences. She wants to try someone "risky and dangerous", not the "safe" type (as she described me). It really is their lost. We're ready to give a loving committment to someone and they just aren't. They thew away something good and won't know it until those new "experiences" don't work out. Too bad.
Author bl22 Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 hmm yeah, that kind of answers my question from both sides i guess. I feel like if I'd met her 3 years from now she'd be ready to settle down.
havehope Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I'm that girl. He was my first everything and I knew without a doubt I found the man I wanted to marry. Hands down. No questions. Four wonderful years. I wasn't even tempted by other people or gave a second thought to wanting to be with someone else. Why would I have? I was completely happy head over heels. He went above and beyond my expectations for a boyfriend and I thought I was the luckiest girl alive. He, however, got the g.i.g.s and its hard to swallow that the other girl is living the life with him that I wanted... but if they're dumb enough to walk away, be smart enough to let them go. I'm sure your girl will realize it down the road, just like I think my ex will too. Will we know if they realize it? Who knows? Hopefully we won't care by then. Hopefully we'll both find someone who does not get g.i.g.s. either. I'm sure our exes will realize the grass is nothing but weeds. best of luck to you - you're not alone in that boat...
cerridwen Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 If she's wise and it's the right person. I would have been happy with only one man forever if he had been the right man. I know that about myself.
LovelyDaze Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 It is possible but I.M.O. I believe you have to have some comparison/s to know that one person was the right one all along. We all have or do hope that our exes go off to date others realizing that we were the actual true love of their life.
Author bl22 Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 Ive come a long way since the break up, i no longer need her in my life but yes i do want her. I am begining to be happy with myself again, got my fitness routine back, without that I'd be a mess right now, but im feeling and looking better each day. Ill see her one day, and hopefully by then she'll see me at my best and realise what she could have had. who knows
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