jwallace1986 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 basically broke up with my girlfriend of 6months around 2 months ago due to her not being over her ex and still having feelings for him. I definitely started off as her rebound but she keeps telling me thats shes now got genuine feelings for me but couldnt get in deeper with me because she hadnt got over him. Shes said that shes never going to get back with him because they dont work together. I appreciated her honesty, and even though it felt horrible we broke up fairly amicably. Since weve split i tried going non contact, but shes been texting me non stop, tellin me how much misses me and that she wants to get back together. Weve seen each other few times now and she admitted shes been to see her ex couple times, and is now saying shes completely over him but im worried shes only saying this to get me back! Im really confused about what to do because even though i want her back, im not convinced shes over him and all this could happen again further down the line! Really need some advice!
Tonkerponk Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Sounds like getting back with her is going to get you hurt. Sounds like you made the right choice in the first place. If you really want her back, give her a chance, but keep your emotions in check and try not to get too involved until you know 100% shes over her ex. Let her know this. Make her work for it IMO. If you give her another chance, just be mentally prepared for the worst. People dont usually change in my experience, and the best indication of future behavior, is past behavior. Do you have any proof or reason to believe that shed be truly over him? Does she still have his contact info, FB friends ect? Itd also help to know why they broke up in the first place maybe.
Hhhh Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Sounds like getting back with her is going to get you hurt. Sounds like you made the right choice in the first place. If you really want her back, give her a chance, but keep your emotions in check and try not to get too involved until you know 100% shes over her ex. Let her know this. Make her work for it IMO. If you give her another chance, just be mentally prepared for the worst. People dont usually change in my experience, and the best indication of future behavior, is past behavior. Do you have any proof or reason to believe that shed be truly over him? Does she still have his contact info, FB friends ect? Itd also help to know why they broke up in the first place maybe. This guy nailed it you don't need anymore posts lol
poorguy Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Be careful because I am the ex BF that my ex GF is constantly talking to even though she's been with her new guy for 5 months now. She badmouths him to me and get sexual with me-all on email or text. I'm not really sure what it actually means coming from her-but I'm sure the new guy wouldn't be happy if he new about any of it
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