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fun2bewith Established Member

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What do you want your end result to be between the two of you?

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A legit friendship down the road. That's why we strived for a clean and amicable break because of me moving away. But this will be only after NC for a loooooong time.

cerridwen Established Member

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Ideally? For him to realize I'm awesome!! lol

And he BLEW IT!!

ReturnToSender Established Member

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Im still struggling here, so I know this will make no sense after everything Ive said about my ex and our relationship:

 

I would like it if he realized just how much I do love and am devoted to him, and the relationship that we have. That he would decide it wouldnt be worth risking or losing again, and would do a complete 180 back to the man he was the first couple of years we were together... That he would make the commitment to be with me, to live as a family, to get married, want me by his side for both the great times and the crappy times, and want happiness for me as much as I want it for him...

 

...and then we'd ride off into the sunset on my pet unicorn who lifts us off into the clouds to slide down a rainbow to our magical castle in the sky. (Cause yeah, thats not any more realistic than anything I said in my first paragraph...lol)

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I would like it if he realized just how much I do love and am devoted to him, and the relationship that we have. That he would decide it wouldnt be worth risking or losing again, and would do a complete 180 back to the man he was the first couple of years we were together... That he would make the commitment to be with me, to live as a family, to get married, want me by his side for both the great times and the crappy times, and want happiness for me as much as I want it for him...

 

 

In all honesty, ReturnToSender just described exactly what I want (sigh)

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I want my end result to be that I can go out and change the world and not give a flying f*ck how he feels!!!

PegNosePete Established Member

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I want to have a happy life. I don't care what happens to her.

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My success will be my revenge.

My ex is living proof that those who are lazy, get nowhere.

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for her to not exist in my life or in my mind, she had the chance for both and no longer wanted it, i dont even want the memories, she can have them...

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Acceptance and inner peace.(sigh.)

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I want to learn to live my life for myself and stop "trying" to make everyone else happy. I have to be happy first..I worry too much about what other people think and feel.

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For me to be able to forgive him, for mysake, not his. For me to realize I don't need validation from a guy. To be on civil terms. To accept it for what it is. To be come a stronger person because of this. To be happy again.

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What do you want your end result to be between the two of you?

 

What I want to happen, is to work on myself as a person and my issues. I want her to grow up and figure out what she needs and wants in a partner. Then, if possible, I'd like to reconcile. But it seems, we're both just moving on since she (the dumper) hasn't contacted me in 3 months. :(

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I hope we can both be happy. I know I will be happy because I can take care of myself, and I hope he can achieve the same.

 

I hope that we remain connected, know each other, have an understanding our our past together, without affecting the present or future.

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I honestly want her to realise it was a mistake and for her to come back and get things back to normal and the trust back somehow.

 

I dont see how I can trust anyone again if i cant trust the nicest kindest person ive ever known...Im not going to meet anyone more kinder than my ex was for 2 years.

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The words "mac truck" and "no brakes" coming screaming to my mind..... Huh wierd.

On the other side get my degree, find a great woman, hit powerball, you know the usual

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They say before you die your life flashes before your eyes...

I'll do my best to make sure it's worth watching!

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For her to realise she cant have me in her life right now and Im going to the other side of the world to grow and improve myself and experiance all I can.

 

For her to try and find herself and be happy and live it up being single for afew years.

 

For our paths to cross in 2years or so and see if there is a spark I will always love her :)

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I don't know.... I wish I did...

 

It's been over 5 months now and yet she is still the first and last person I think of everyday,.. I know it's over yet I still can't stop thinking of her,,,

 

 

You ask what will the end be??? I only wish I knew it...

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For her to realise she cant have me in her life right now and Im going to the other side of the world to grow and improve myself and experiance all I can.

 

For her to try and find herself and be happy and live it up being single for afew years.

 

For our paths to cross in 2years or so and see if there is a spark I will always love her :)

 

 

I think your idea sound really good...It is possible....I think you are on the right tract...

fabio10 Established Member

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I think Im the romantic ;):) but I have no ill feelings towards her I really want the best for her and me, call me cocky or a fool but I know she will come to see me as the one that got away, but at this moment in time our paths must seperate it is so hard as she really is trying hard to contact me more than ever but nothing good will come of it we only broke up in July I think second chances only work if people really do change and in my opinion this takes years apart ! What do you want your story to be ?

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I want to learn to live my life for myself and stop "trying" to make everyone else happy. I have to be happy first..I worry too much about what other people think and feel.

 

This is a mirrored image of me.. I too worry way to much. It seems you're much better off not caring. Amazing how it works. Think and do opposite to how you feel when your in this situation.

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Can forgive but would not forget. No dramas and stay NC. Move on peacefully and cherish myself on all aspects. Hopefully to live a more beautiful life the days ahead:bunny::bunny:

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