really-broken Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 It comes and goes, but some days are really hard to handle and I end up so desperate and it feels like there's so much sadness and heaviness and darkness. I don't really know what to do. I'm still in contact with my ex, but she is away and we will not see each other again for at least another 6-8 months. we've been broken up for about 6 months. Now I am trying to go out there and date new people, but it's still very hard to do because I can't seem to be meeting anyone who's compatible with me or with whom I have mutual interest. And then it brings me back to how amazing my ex was and how amazing our relationship was. It was really the best thing to happen to me and now I feel so much less alive. Today I felt so lonely and powerless, because even though I know she misses me, I think it is overall easier for her at the moment. She also acknowledges this. Also, she's dated people since we broke up, and I haven't, and this kind of comes back sometimes and makes me feel more anxious and depressed. What should I do? I know I should get over her, but at the same time we have a shot at getting back together when she's back. She gives me these hints in her emails that she still likes me and appreciates me, but at the same time I think we are uneven in terms of how much affection each is giving the other. Also she has more experience with guys than I have with girls. And this might play into the equation somehow. Anyway, I am so distracted and can't focus on anything else. I would appreciate any good advice I can get.
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 A link to your other thread. Hope you got the answers you needed. i'm so lonely after breaking up with my ex
Karma20 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 You can't move on because you still talk to her. Stop talking to her and and move on.
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