fun2bewith Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I guess the answer is: "After you have healed yourself and after sufficient NC". How many months NC are enough? How many years/months NC are too many?
USMCHokie Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 "After you have healed yourself and after sufficient NC". When you have reached this stage, your entire question will have become irrelevant.
Author fun2bewith Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 When you have reached this stage, your entire question will have become irrelevant. True! Right now I feel like I want her in my life, but I am not healed yet... I wish I could help her, but now if I get involved, I will get upset and will mess things up. Then I do not know if I should leave it for a few years and then try again..
USMCHokie Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Then I do not know if I should leave it for a few years and then try again.. I assure you that you won't care by then. I was right where you were a year ago. I thought I'd never heal and never stop caring and never stop hurting. But here I am over a year later, and I'm happy for her that she's happy with someone else. And I must say I'm doing pretty well myself. It DOES get better, I assure you.
Author fun2bewith Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 I assure you that you won't care by then. I was right where you were a year ago. I thought I'd never heal and never stop caring and never stop hurting. But here I am over a year later, and I'm happy for her that she's happy with someone else. And I must say I'm doing pretty well myself. It DOES get better, I assure you. Thanks! Thanks! I needed that, I really want to break NC its only 20 something days, but your positive post makes me want to hold it out! Thank you!
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