jordan09 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Ok. This might sound a little stupid but here we go. I'm a freshman in college and I met this girl. I've never had some much chemisty with someone. We started hanging out and I had sex with her and the feelings started to grow. We talked and hungout for a few months, then I could tell she acted different. She got where she didn't talk as much as much and didn't wanna hangout as much.... She said she didn't want me to get attached cause she was in college for a good time. And the other night I texted her and she never replied and she uploaded a pic on fb from her phone so It made me mad. So I deleted her on fb and bbm cause I'm fallin so hard I didn't wanna keep seeing her and wanna talk to her. She texted me the next day and said she told me she didn't want a bf while in school and I didnr text her back. I still haven't talked with her. I like her prolly more than I have any girl. I brought her home with me a few weeksends and let her meet all my friends ans family ect... Did I do the right thing by dropping her and hopefully she'll realize how much I did like her and come back???? I'm to the point idk what to do.... I want to talk to her but I don't want to keep talkin to her and mess things up In the future bertween us....
Leandro Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 She doesn't want you as a bf or a bf at all. Stop wasting your time. You're in college. I'm sure you will meet another girl who wants a relationships, but focus on school mainly.
lululucy Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 You absolutely did the right thing -- but I don't think she is going to come back. She might text you when she misses you and wants a cuddle, but you need to ignore her for your own sanity. Try to have a good time and see other people and enjoy college! Chalk this one up to experience.
McGrupp Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 play it cool. the fact you already banged her is a good thing. i would re-friend her in a week or so. you dont want her to think your mad if you could put up a pic or 2 of you with other girls i think that would be a good thing. limit contact and act cool and i gurantee she will come back. just dont act needy or insecure. basically act like a man not a pussy. and dont chase. replace.
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