What is the easiest you ever have been let down?

[JungleLover]

So we all have had that real special crush or that someone we were going crazy over but they just wasn't feeling you. What was the easiest you have been let down by a person? They let you down so easy that it was hard for you to be too disappointed with them for not giving you more of a chance.

[shayan]

I find most rejections pretty easy. My favourite one though was when I approached this pretty girl I liked in the school cafeteria and she was studying and I was like "hey can I have a seat, it's pretty busy in here," and she was like "can't you see I'm studying."

[phineas]

She showed up to dinner with her friend.

[Cracker Jack]

"Honestly, I find you to be very attractive and kind hearted. I just don't feel ready for a relationship right now. I'm sorry. I wish my answer was different because the idea of being with you is something I always thought about."

 

After she said the above, she leaned over and kissed me, then she gave me a nice long hug. She was nice. Being turned-down by her hurted, but I wasn't mad at her at all. I still remember it as if it happened yesterday.

[youngskywalker]

Text message, but it was a crush and not a girlfriend. No drama, no discussing. Done deal and I moved on.

[JungleLover]

"Honestly, I find you to be very attractive and kind hearted. I just don't feel ready for a relationship right now. I'm sorry. I wish my answer was different because the idea of being with you is something I always thought about."

 

After she said the above, she leaned over and kissed me, then she gave me a nice long hug. She was nice. Being turned-down by her hurted, but I wasn't mad at her at all. I still remember it as if it happened yesterday.

 

After reading this, I feel as if I've just been let down easy.

[Star Gazer]

"You're gorgeous, funny, smart, have absolutely everything going for you, and I must be an idiot to say this, but for some reason I just don't feel that special something necessary for a the kind of relationship I want to work."

 

That worked, didn't even hurt. I was disappointed, but my ego wasn't even bruised.

[that girl]

Gay.

 

You just cannot feel bad when you find out the guy is gay.

[Chitowngirl]

Gay.

 

You just cannot feel bad when you find out the guy is gay.

lolol :)

[SadandConfusedWA]

The best way for me to be turned down is for a guy to do so unambiguously.

 

If someone leaves no room for hope, I move on really quickly.

 

The worst is something like: I really like you and I do see a potential for serious relationship with you in the future, but I am just not ready right now. I do want to hang out in the meantime and see what happens. I wasted almost a year on that guy

[Cee]

I agree with SACWA- the direct approach is my favorite. It's such a rarity that I almost want to thank the guy for rejecting me in no uncertain terms.

 

My favorite let down was almost 20 years ago when I expressed feelings for a friend after a night of drinking. He gently said he wasn't interested. I never hit on him again and quashed my feelings.

 

This guy and I remain the best of friends. In fact, we are having lunch together today. We've known each other for half our lives now.

[diligentdilettante]

"You're girlfriend material, and I'm just looking to play right now."

 

Hmm. Maybe it was the most difficult (and condescending) let down, now that I think about it.

[SilentVoice]

No contact -- well it was easy for him -_-

[tami-chan]

"I'm smitten...but so many things going on with my career and I have never done an LDR..."

 

I was crushed....but still think of him as an awesome, awesome guy