1life8love1trust Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 My break up has been over a year now, but looking back I did couple stupid thing. The first one was typical. I didn't give her space. And the second was once I ran all the way to her place, I literally ran, she lives about 7-8 miles away only to see her with her new dude. Making out in his car. Wish I had done something kicked the dudes ass, something. But I knew I would have only embarrassed myself. LOL not that what I did was not embarrassing enough by stalking her. I only did this and pretty much went on depression mode and eventually moved away. What did you guys do????
Theforgottenmelody Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 man you are good cause after 7-8 milkes to see that i would have curb stomped both of them. anyway i plotted slashing her tires just so she could call me to get them fixed! those were the worst of times
Author 1life8love1trust Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 Lol. I really wanted to. But between the crazy thoughts I knew better. I ended up calling a friend to pick me up cause I couldn't run back home cause I was in pain. It was also freezing. I was outside watching them in his car making out and stuff for over an hour. So sad. hahaha
Leandro Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 The craziest thing i did because of the break up??? I carved a X into my right pec. 3 months later and it's still there. I wasn't thinking right.
Banega100 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 class thread! let's have some more stories! Told her that i was depressed and that was the reason why things werent working out. Fck, i almost forgot. told her i loved her and loads of soppy ****. That's so embarressing. honestly it makes me cringe. i nearly forgot about it ha ha.
bl22 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Most crazy thing I did was send like 15 txts in a row because she wasnt answering turns out she was in lesson at uni and couldnt. I thought of doing crazier, going down to her work and punching the guy who come between us, but that would have got me arrested most likely.
Coolsbreeze Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I think the craziest thing would be a week after the breakup i told her i still loved her in a text, she didn't respond and was dating a new guy at the time. I would've really liked to go to the guy and spit in his face, i wonder how that would've turned out lol.
USMCHokie Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I joined the Marine Corps. I didn't tell my parents until after I had signed the contract. Absolutely one of the best decisions of my life.
redmelon Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 based jumped off a wind turbine no one is gonna beat that!
Silver_Tears Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Oh man, when I lost my boyfriend I freaked out. I ran outside just as he was about to leave and was going to walk around the campus wearing a pretty revealing top (it was late and a very stupid thing to do at the time). I just wanted to walk the feelings of pain off, but he came after me and walked me back to my room. And yeah, I've had the feelings of self-harm before. But in the end the only person it hurts is me, I keep telling myself that. And I don't deserve to be hurt more. Funny how irrational you can be when your heart is ripped open?
Notsogood Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I finished work one afternoon and went walking with no direction or goal. I walked for about 4 hours that night. I was totally out of my mind and I have no idea what I was thinking. I was on the verge of a nervous breakdown and I think that period has been the weakest point in my entire life.
Username37 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Asked for a second chance after finding out she hooked up with someone.
renogirl4 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 A week after the break up I texted and asked if I could see him. He said no he's going to a concert in an hour. Tears and all in my eyes I drove all the way to where the concert would be. Took pictures to let him know I was there. Sprayed my perfum dwn the path to the concert door. It was a small venue. And sent them to him phone. I didn't get a chance to see him, because I couldn't dread seeing him with another woman. So I just left. I just wanted him to constantly be freaked out and wonder if I was there. It was funny once I went to work that night and thought about it but I was still hurt.
LovelyDaze Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 A few years ago, I sent a different ex a fake text. I pretended to send a message to my best friend about how great a new guy I went out on a date with. He didn't buy it for 1 little second. He text back, "DON'T text me again.period." Embarrassing!
Author 1life8love1trust Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 Awesome stuff guys. One that I did that most of you guys did was go out and just wonder around with no direction. I would run miles and miles tears pouring down my eyes and when I couldn't cry anymore probably 15 miles off I would run back home. I have gone a long way I lost about 35lbs and I have never looked better. I guess it was motivation.
collegeguy_24 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I tried winning her back for several weeks, only to find she was dating someone else as soon as she left me and during the entire time was giving me hope of getting back together. I also attempted suicide twice. I don't want to get back to that point and I've done rather well since. This goes to everyone: Don't ever sink as low as I did, I learned that its hard to move on, but there are other options out there to live your life with. Don't take your own life, but live it, own it, conquer it.
broken-and-lost Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 i crashed my lotus right outside of her house because i drove past hers instead of my normal route wrote the car off and blocked the road only to see her coming home from work, so ended up with no girl and no nice car hell of a month
Author 1life8love1trust Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 I tried winning her back for several weeks, only to find she was dating someone else as soon as she left me and during the entire time was giving me hope of getting back together. I also attempted suicide twice. I don't want to get back to that point and I've done rather well since. This goes to everyone: Don't ever sink as low as I did, I learned that its hard to move on, but there are other options out there to live your life with. Don't take your own life, but live it, own it, conquer it. I though about suicide too, but I thought about my future. I want to have kids and watch them grow, so I can't die just yet. At least if God lets me. I also thought of enlisting in the USMC I wanted something to do. My friends and family talked me out of it cause they said it would be worst cause I was emotionally unstable and I might do more harm.
Author 1life8love1trust Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 i crashed my lotus right outside of her house because i drove past hers instead of my normal route wrote the car off and blocked the road only to see her coming home from work, so ended up with no girl and no nice car hell of a month I bet you looked back and realized how much more that lotus was worth than her. Could you Imagine the women you would be with now if you still had that baby:-) What series was it?
broken-and-lost Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I bet you looked back and realized how much more that lotus was worth than her. Could you Imagine the women you would be with now if you still had that baby:-) What series was it? series 2 SC model so the new type, lets just say i really miss that car
broken-and-lost Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I though about suicide too, but I thought about my future. I want to have kids and watch them grow, so I can't die just yet. At least if God lets me. I also thought of enlisting in the USMC I wanted something to do. My friends and family talked me out of it cause they said it would be worst cause I was emotionally unstable and I might do more harm. It funny how failed relationships can really mess with your mind one of the hardest things you will ever cope with i feel for you all, i've just messed up another one of mine so going through a rough patch but won't be trying to hurt myself and my new car is staying in the garage until i feel emotionally stable again, even if i do what you did fella and run everywhere lol
mmiller5373 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Oh, man. I have a huge list. I basically went nuts. - I would tell her off one day. Then the next day send her texts begging her to come back. - During the 1st week of the breakup I must have called her a good 75 times. - I drove 3 hours to her house a few times. The last time it didn't end too well. - I waited outside of her work for her to get off. - I sent her a long e-mail proclaiming my love for her. - I told her plenty of times she wouldn't hear from me again, only to contact her again after a few weeks. All stupid stuff. I've completely ruined my credibility, stability, and sanity but letting her mess with my mind. I went from being the guy she was in love with to the crazy ex.
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