indiangirl12 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Hi all, I have been reading through your posts and I feel a lot better.Here is my story He ended it last November after two years of being together.I was totally devastated and begged him for a second chance more than a few times. He wanted to be "just" friends.His argument was he did not want to go through the "hell" again.I agree I was at fault at times by being insecure and I feel bad for it.Last one year has been a self discovery period.But,the damage has already been done.I begged him for reconciliation almost every month.Initially he was fine but the last two times he was really rude.He also said that it can never happen.I'm so devastated.My last encounter was two days back and he was really really rude. We still live in the same house with a friend as well.I don't see myself moving out because of the lease issues.Also,If I have to avoid him I will have to avoid all my close friends because all my close friends are our common friends.I'm not too sure if NC can work for me.I'm so devastated..I love him soo much..I don't even feel like living even after one year.My life is totally messed up without him..Can I ever lead a normal life?
sedgwick Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Wait, you've been broken up for a year but still living together the entire time?! Okay, step one: f*ck the lease!!!! Get out of there and go NC immediately!! What's more important...your lease, or your sanity?
Author indiangirl12 Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 Thanks for your advice sedgwick...Yeah I was kinda thinking of breaking the lease after the last encounter with him..I was only living with the hope for the whole last year.He was all nice to me like a "friend" after the break up.He only gets rude when I ask for a second chance.I don't know what's going on..
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