jthorne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 (edited) Well from what you've written you're completely threatened by the thought and therefore the broad generalization and zero self-reflection. But to each his own I guess. Keep believing what it's safe to believe. And don't worry about others who have a different opinion than you. As your experiences change, so will how you deal with things. GELCompletely threatened? Huh, interesting. I see what Laurie has posted as COMMON SENSE from someone with a sense of common decency. Seems like the broad generalization and zero self-reflection could be applied likewise, just sayin'. Keep believing what it's safe to believe. And don't worry about others who have a different opinion than you. GELSame can be said for you, no? If you weren't so threatened by her statement/opinion, why the thinly veiled insults? Why not just say, "You're entitled to your opinion, as am I. Maybe later your perspective will change." No need to be nasty and insult someone's intelligence, is there? Edited November 19, 2010 by jthorne
Snowflower Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 This is completely misinformed. As a fOW, I can attest that it was not the case at all! My boundaries are well established; my fMM (now H) certainly never pushed me around, nor even dreamed of attempting to do so - I was never a toy to him and he certainly didn't "do pretty much whatever he wanted". If he had, he would have landed up dumped in a microsecond rather than M to me! Please check your facts before exercising your prejudice. Thanks. This is such a polite disagreement. No bashing, no name calling, no rude insinuations. Owoman, I always like reading your posts.
jthorne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 There could be another explanation for a perceived "lack of understanding" of A's. Some people just cannot conceive of participating in certain behaviors, thus, they have a hard time understanding the thought process of those who can.Agreed. I'd say this is true of a majority of the population. Most people have been raised believing "do onto others..." so not understanding A's makes perfect sense.
Silly_Girl Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Agreed. I'd say this is true of a majority of the population. Most people have been raised believing "do onto others..." so not understanding A's makes perfect sense. Are you suggesting that people who become involved in extra-marital relationships do so because their parents failed to instil the relevant morals?
jthorne Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Wow. That's quite a stretch.Indeed. and with a twist.
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