poorguy Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 We were together for 3 years and broke up 5 months ago. She got a new BF right away so I just dissapeared. Now all of the sudden she's emailing me all day from work. She asks about everything. Then she gets really flirty and starts talking about the things we used to do (in bed) and says how much she misses it and gets very detailed about it...So I kow everyone is here becasue they got burnt in one way or another but I have heard of exes realizing that they are better off with you once you let them go and get out there. Anybody know what may be going on in her head???
ReturnToSender Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Its possible things didnt work out with the new guy so shes checking to see if youre still available... I dont know...Im super dubious about her being so sexually forward, like if thats her focus, and thats what shes being detailed and what she misses so much, what about you, the relationship itself?
AlisaMarie Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Well here is my opinion. Her new boyfriend after you was her rebound, and he didn't replace you. It obviously didn't or isn't working out. She is going back to the past because it's a comfmort zone. Getting back out there and dating is scary, and if there is nobody in her immidiate interest, she looks back... to you. I am guilty of this behavior myself. I could be wrong, maybe she misses you. Maybe she realized that you are the one for her and she had to figure that out by seeing other people. If you still love her, maybe try to talk to her in person, with no alcohol, and hash it out. And don't have sex with her until you both have an understanding of what is going to happen.
Author poorguy Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 She talks about how she missed going to my families lakehouse this summer together and alone. That was a big thing we did every year. I have been keeping everything as casual as I can when I talk to her. Just to say this she is 23 and I'm 32. That caused a few problem in our relationship because she was partying and me not so much. That's another thing she been saying is that going out and all of that sucks now and she hates it. It's like she's letting me know all of these things???
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