mmk1 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I met someone about two weeks ago and we have gone out 6 times, including everyday for the last 4 days, basically all day each time. Love severy minute but last night seemed a little dull (probably tired after going to an NFL game earlier and four days straight together). Anywho, despite the short time we've known each other, we are going to date exclusively and she is going out of town on her weekly business trip until Thursday. We are getting together Friday and next week for Thanksgiving. She wants to take it slow, as do I, and no sex yet (which is started to bug me and she makes a big deal of how we are not going to do it until she's really ready). Should I let it rest with just those two dates and not even call for a while? I think we may have overdone it.
loverush Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Oh man it is just two weeks gone. Just go on for next date and make some sex sign while you kiss her!
purpleplanet Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Still call, but keep it short and sweet. Try to be sensual, but don't pressure her for sex, that's always a mood killer!
MissKnowitall Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Don't play the 'guy calling/not calling' game. It drives women nuts and usually backfires. She was honest with you. If you can't handle it, move on. And yeah sounds like it was a bit of overkill but hey, live and learn. Just slow it down a bit and let her catch up a bit.
Mad Max Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Don't play the 'guy calling/not calling' game. It drives women nuts and usually backfires. She was honest with you. If you can't handle it, move on. And yeah sounds like it was a bit of overkill but hey, live and learn. Just slow it down a bit and let her catch up a bit. No it doesn't backfire. In most cases, the woman will start to wonder and she'll start calling. I've seen it happen too often. It doesn't backfire.
Author mmk1 Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 I'm doing it so give each of us some space and time to disgest two relative strangers spending 30-40 hours together over the last 4 days, including all day on her birthday (11:00 a.m. until 2:00 a.m. that day). I loved spending all that time together and it felt right and fun until last night after the football game, when we both felt tired. So, not calling is not a game, just both of us probably need a breather. I'll text tomorrow night once she is on her business trip and back in her hotel.
Tim The Enchanter Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Sometimes you do need time apart, no matter how well you get on and how passionate the relationship. When you're with a woman so frequently you forget what it's like to be a guy with other guys. It's good to get away every once in a while, for both parties.
Author mmk1 Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 Tim, I totally agree. You need some time apart and with the guys to keep your head on straight!
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