Lizzeh Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I am a 19 yr old girl who's working part time and full time studying... I met this guy at work who's 27 and we hit it off. I have gone through a recent messy break up and whilst this has been going on I've been sleeping with this 27 yr old guy. I've started to really like this guy he's cute funny kind and down to earth... I just don't know what he wants From all this. We've been sleeping together at least 2 times a week for about 3 months now but don't hang out on weekends. I'm cool with all that but yeah I want to move on to dating but is the age difference a problem And I don't know if that's what he wants? I'm scared I'll ruin what we have by talking to him about it coz let's face it who likes being rejected. Oh and the whole I love you thing is out there. He said it to me very! Early on in the whatever we are. Advice on what u think I should do would be great! I really like him and I just want to ce more serious with him.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I am a 19 yr old girl who's working part time and full time studying... I met this guy at work who's 27 and we hit it off. I have gone through a recent messy break up and whilst this has been going on I've been sleeping with this 27 yr old guy. Ahhhhhhhhh, the luxuries afforded to young adult women in our society...
welikeincrowds Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Ahhhhhhhhh, the luxuries afforded to young adult women in our society... You know, nothing's stopping you from meeting this girl at work who's 19 and hitting it off.
NoLongerSad Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 Advice on what u think I should do would be great! I really like him and I just want to ce more serious with him. 19 is way too young to tie yourself down. This 27 year old is just a rebound. My advice is to have sex with as many different guys as you possibly can for the next few years. That's your absolute right as a woman. The 27 year old has no respect for you, he's just using you for sex, you're a booty call. He can't even make any time for you on weekends? Screw him.
Pfiend101 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 curious. What type of Job do a 19 y/o and 27 y/o work at. You dont have to tell me where. Just curious. Like fast food?
Author Lizzeh Posted November 16, 2010 Author Posted November 16, 2010 cool okay well we both work at a hardware shop lol but hes also a concrete renderer. he has his own business too like hes not a drop kick thanks for the advice i think just being myself with him i suppose will work and if he wants more great if not i shouldnt care? like i'm young i should have fun yes? its just hard when all you want is to be cuddled by this great guy. Thanks again
aerogurl87 Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 What does he want from all of this? Well that's quite obvious, sex. He's not seeing you on weekends and you two are just friends with benefits. Unless he asks you out on a proper date, then I think he's made his intentions pretty clear.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 You know, nothing's stopping you from meeting this girl at work who's 19 and hitting it off. Well, uh, yeah, there's the PACIFIC OCEAN (among other things) !!!
Knittress Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Well, uh, yeah, there's the PACIFIC OCEAN (among other things) !!! You live in a land devoid of 19 year olds?
Author Lizzeh Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 i dont get the pacific ocean thing. lol we both live in aust. i just effed up the time zone thing when registering lol
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 No, there's just some stoner on here pointlessly quoting one of my threads while somehow believing that I have any interest in meeting a 19yo. Some of the drug-addled minds at OD never cease to amaze.
latingirllover1 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 you're just 19....don't be attached to him.,,you are too young to be engrossed in such a guy who doesn't seem to be interested to a more intimate relationship...try out moving on..i mean.extend yourself...he's not the only guy in the world come on.,.but i don't blame you girl..love comes in the least expected situations and time.,.no..age doesn't matter..the issue is not with your age gap...the fact that you two are sleeping together now shows its got nothing to do with the age.,.know what,.,try dating other guys.,.check out http://www.latineuro.com..this site is great.,.just for fun..it won't hurt to flirt at times ;-)
Surrealist Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Yes have as much sex with as many guys as possible. Its not too much of a stretch to have sex with two different guys a week. Over the course of a given year, that will be 104 different guys you've laid. By the time you are 25, you'd have laid some 624 guys! By the time you are my age, you'll be right up there almost with Gene Simmons, having laid some 2154 guys! Hey I could make a mathematical problem game out of this.... Given OP is currently 19 years old, how old does that make surrealist?
welikeincrowds Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 No, there's just some stoner on here pointlessly quoting one of my threads while somehow believing that I have any interest in meeting a 19yo. Some of the drug-addled minds at OD never cease to amaze. Drug-addled? You're the one who brought in the Pacific Ocean, for whatever reason. I was merely pointing out that your position -- that any part of her story reflects on some kind of gendered advantage -- was imaginary, sentimental bull****. Unfortunate to see the incredible degree to which that went over your head.\ EDIT: Oops, I just realized that I've been trolled. Nicely done, 8/10.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Drug-addled? You're the one who brought in the Pacific Ocean, for whatever reason. I was merely pointing out that your position -- that any part of her story reflects on some kind of gendered advantage -- was imaginary, sentimental bull****. Unfortunate to see the incredible degree to which that went over your head.\ EDIT: Oops, I just realized that I've been trolled. Nicely done, 8/10. Now it seems you're on a three-day bender. Nothing here says or implies anything about a "gendered advantage". Apparently the only imaginary details here are those floating around in the margarita mush in your head. Dude, you'd have to be totally inebriated, or just that stupid to have come up with your earlier statements given the reality right in front of you. Lizzeh New Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: australia Posts: 3 I am a 19 yr old girl Quote: Originally Posted by SincereOnlineGuy Ahhhhhhhhh, the luxuries afforded to young adult women in our society... You know, nothing's stopping you from meeting this girl at work who's 19 and hitting it off. [/Quote] Do you really think the audience is going to visualize your alcohol/drug-induced scenario of some 19yo girl living and working in Australia and a purely-random-to-her American guy on LoveShack somehow working in the same location? Just think, when/if you sober up, your english might at least be passable. (though most of us have our doubts) Well, uh, yeah, there's the PACIFIC OCEAN (among other things) !!!
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