trust her or not

[henry123]

I have a really happy and satisfying relationship with my girl when i met her she was being upfront and told me about her relationship witha guy for 6 yrs. We started dating then she told me about one of her friends(boy) who likes her a lot and wants to get married to her but she doesnt feel the same about him but she use3d to meet him and go out with him .Since i have moved into the same town she has been ignoring that guy she doesnt pick his call .And she knows i really dont like her being in touch with that guy .Recently i also came to know after her break up with her boyfriend she was in relationship with a married guy twice her age.When i confronted her she said it was not that significant thats why she never told me about that guy.Since i have met her she hass been totally and completely loyal to me but her past really troubles me what should i do should i trust her or not

[henry123]

i dont understand what type of person do u mean .do you think she lose?

[henry123]

i dont understand what type of person do u mean .do you think she lose?

yesterday i confronted her she said ,she had crush on his married boss who is some 20 yrs elder to her and they were physically involved as well

[InternationalPlayboy]

None of this makes any sense. Sorry.

[KiloOneOne]

None of this makes any sense. Sorry.

 

I think he is asking if should trust his GF after she had a fling with a married man?

 

To the OP

I don't see why not, I had a fling with a married woman once. I was single, I regret it terribly, i had a lot of lust and feelings for her (not love) but I would not cheat on my wife. I often think how stupid I was. I told my wife about this, she thought it was stupid but she trusts me and I had just been cheated on from a long term relationship... so I was I guess out to prove myself foolishly!!

 

Incidentally my wife dated a man 15 years her senior at one stage in her life.. He was married but separated (So he said). end of the day, that's the past... I know some same History repeats, or you can judge by History but you also have to believe in your own relationship and self worth, and I guess trust she would not cheat on you.

 

Don't be getting in to weather she is lose or not, my wife if the subject comes up, cringes about that guy she dated, and cant believe what she was doing such a "skinny, idiotic prune" (her own words) she is with you now, who cares about the past..

 

Enjoy her, trust her.. If anything crops up that you are uncomfortable about, don't stew... just ask her nicely.

Edited November 19, 2010 by KiloOneOne

[Brandi 2]

I have a really happy and satisfying relationship with my girl when i met her she was being upfront and told me about her relationship witha guy for 6 yrs. We started dating then she told me about one of her friends(boy) who likes her a lot and wants to get married to her but she doesnt feel the same about him but she use3d to meet him and go out with him .Since i have moved into the same town she has been ignoring that guy she doesnt pick his call .And she knows i really dont like her being in touch with that guy .Recently i also came to know after her break up with her boyfriend she was in relationship with a married guy twice her age.When i confronted her she said it was not that significant thats why she never told me about that guy.Since i have met her she hass been totally and completely loyal to me but her past really troubles me what should i do should i trust her or not

 

Give her a break, she hasn't been unkind to you so mostlikely she found her man now and learned from her mistakes.

 

A persons past doesn't define them it only tells a past story that is non existance in the present.

 

Don't let it bother you and be happy!

[henry123]

i saw her carrying photographs of her past what to do