fun2bewith Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Feel free to add more questions that can create a positive or a hopeful mindset... Great things happen in times of great need! 1) Is he/she still in this world? If they did not die, then they are still in this world, just because your relationship ended does not mean you will lose them forever. Now they will have time to learn life lessons. And you will have time to build yourself. If you went through the final stage of grief, you can easily start fresh with new perspective, but by that time you probably would not want to. So if they are still in this world then did you actually lose them? Nothing is forever lost it is just misplaced or in a different form... 2) Will he/she remember you? Yes, just because you were a part of her/his life means that you already made an impact. You contributed to his/her life…Think about the butterfly effect…You already changed their path… 3) Could you get your EX back into your life? Yes, only attempt after stage 5, but could you keep him/her in your life? 4) Will his/her memories of you be erased? No, suppressed yes, set aside yes, forgotten no. 5) Did you make an impact on his/her life? Just by you being there you made an impact. 6) Do you have time now to build yourself? 7) Do you have the freedom to do what you want? 8) Can you save more money now? 9) What is the good that could come from this? 10) Can you educate yourself more? 11) Can you go to the gym more often now? 12) Is this an opportunity to learn more about you? It is not the fittest that will survive, it is the most adaptable to change that will. By changing your mindset, you are adapting…
shayan Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 your last qoute is really funny because fitness is evolutionary biology mainly means your ability to survive long enough to produce viable offspring, so it's like adapt and make babies. Sorry for the nerdy input but back to the main post good questions. Offcourse they will remember you. some more positive questions you can ask yourself. how much do I love myself? Am I giving others more love then I give myself?
Author fun2bewith Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 (edited) some more positive questions you can ask yourself. how much do I love myself? Am I giving others more love then I give myself? Now these are definitely positive questions...It really made me think...Thank you... Edited November 15, 2010 by fun2bewith spelling
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