yume Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 What can a member of the opposite sex do to seduce you? Some common actions might include: 1. (frequently) smiling at you 2. making eye contact ("sticky eyes") 3. open body language i.e. not crossed arms, facing the person when they're speaking 4. casual touches when talking Other examples? How do you go about really showing an interest in someone or what can a person do to really make your attraction clock tick? What are these signals? And no I do not mean buying flowers or chocolates or any of that cheesy poop. Just curious for seduction purposes. I'm tempted to try it out on someone I like, and was looking for ideas.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Personally, if I want to seduce a guy - it's with my eyes only.
tigressA Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I prefer touch. I'm very physically affectionate. I grab a guy's hand and mention something I notice about it that I like, think is cute/quirky, whatever. I did that with a guy I went on a date with this past Friday--he has a little dense patch of hair on the backs of his hands and I thought that was neat. I do this hand thing pretty much every time, and it works like a charm. As far as what I like being done to me...again, I prefer touch. I get a little thrill if a guy I'm out with finds an excuse to put his arm around me, hug me, put his hand(s) on my hips or waist.
somedude81 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Bah, I wish I knew how to seduce women. That problem isn't unique to me as many men don't know how to either. That's why Pick-up, is a multi-million dollar industry. BTW, thanks for the tips tigressA.
Author yume Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 I prefer touch. I'm very physically affectionate. I grab a guy's hand and mention something I notice about it that I like, think is cute/quirky, whatever. I did that with a guy I went on a date with this past Friday--he has a little dense patch of hair on the backs of his hands and I thought that was neat. I do this hand thing pretty much every time, and it works like a charm. As far as what I like being done to me...again, I prefer touch. I get a little thrill if a guy I'm out with finds an excuse to put his arm around me, hug me, put his hand(s) on my hips or waist. Okay, what about in the early stages though where you haven't quite reached the stage of being able to grab his hand without looking like a fool? I mean this is more of an "establishing the possibility of something more" stage (for me at least ). (by the way I read about your date, glad you had a good time!) I suppose another good question would be what are your favorite ways to flirt and be flirted with??
e.clipse Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 i wear little, tight dresses that accentuate my curves and gently press my body against theirs as i walk past by them. since this move is "accidental," i slightly turn my head around after the contact and whisper: "oh, sorry" and give them a playful look and inviting smirk as i walk away. works all the time.
tigressA Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Okay, what about in the early stages though where you haven't quite reached the stage of being able to grab his hand without looking like a fool? I mean this is more of an "establishing the possibility of something more" stage (for me at least ). (by the way I read about your date, glad you had a good time!) I suppose another good question would be what are your favorite ways to flirt and be flirted with?? Well, I go for the classics--you always want to find a way to close the physical distance between you and the other person. Lean in more when you talk, and lower your voice so he has to lean in more. Keep your body positioning open and friendly. Employ casual touch--a light brush of your fingers on their hand or arm. Trust me, the hand thing works even in your stage. I've done it at that stage--I would look at my own hand first, and then make up an excuse to look at his hand. Like "I'm going to die in 10 years; my life line is really short. What about yours, let me see...(takes hand, traces lines). Oh, yours is better. Your hands are kinda rough, what do you do with them? (rubs calluses)..." It's seriously smooth sailing from there on out. Try it!
Green Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Bah, I wish I knew how to seduce women. That problem isn't unique to me as many men don't know how to either. That's why Pick-up, is a multi-million dollar industry. BTW, thanks for the tips tigressA. I could teach you how to get women... oh wait I already told you and heck you already seem to know what you need to do but are just to afraid. i wear little, tight dresses that accentuate my curves and gently press my body against theirs as i walk past by them. since this move is "accidental," i slightly turn my head around after the contact and whisper: "oh, sorry" and give them a playful look and inviting smirk as i walk away. works all the time. that does sound nice, hope the next guy you pull that with rips you out of that dress
MissKnowitall Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I lick my lips. I have great full pouty lips and I find men look at my mouth a lot. I use my hair a lot too. If they touch it accidentally, they are putty I also find that my voice goes up a bit higher when I am interested in someone. Maybe to sound more 'innocent'. What seduces me is if a guy laughs at my silly jokes. If he pays attention to what I am saying (good listener). No mister grabby paws. That turns me off. If he puts his hand on my back, that is seductive though. Or reaching to stroke my face. Drives me bonkers!
somedude81 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I could teach you how to get women... oh wait I already told you and heck you already seem to know what you need to do but are just to afraid. There's more to it than just asking them out.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 i wear little, tight dresses that accentuate my curves and gently press my body against theirs as i walk past by them. since this move is "accidental," i slightly turn my head around after the contact and whisper: "oh, sorry" and give them a playful look and inviting smirk as i walk away. works all the time. Lol I'm going to steal this method. I love dressing up, but I also like to throw in a pair of sexy heels into the mix.
Green Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 There's more to it than just asking them out. ask any woman in this thread they love being asked out by a cool confident guy. Then you just kiss them on the date. You know what you need to do, you just arn't confident to be yourself, you have this little voice in your head that constantly talks negative and tells you "she doesn't like you" "don't do it you'll get rejected" you get the picture. You need to BE YOURSELF, the version of yourself you want to be but are to afraid to be. Cmon MAN wasn't there a time when you just wanted to have FUN with women. YOU KNOW FUN!!!!! HORNY FUN hahah... listen you just seem so stressed out and depressed about chasing women... REMEBER and get in touch with FUN and how FUN it will be to undress a girl like she is some present then stare at her naked body and know you get to fondle it and make her cry out in pleasure.
Author yume Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 i wear little, tight dresses that accentuate my curves and gently press my body against theirs as i walk past by them. since this move is "accidental," i slightly turn my head around after the contact and whisper: "oh, sorry" and give them a playful look and inviting smirk as i walk away. works all the time. mmmmmmmmmm, this might be a possibility...there is a christmas function coming up where we'll both be there...only main issue is the dress I plan on wearing isn't exactly the tight type, but it is quite pretty. I suppose you could be wearing sweats and this move would still work, haha. Oh boy. I use my hair a lot too. How do you mean? You touching it? Flipping it to one side every so often, that sort of thing? Well, I go for the classics--you always want to find a way to close the physical distance between you and the other person. Lean in more when you talk, and lower your voice so he has to lean in more. Keep your body positioning open and friendly. Employ casual touch--a light brush of your fingers on their hand or arm. Trust me, the hand thing works even in your stage. I've done it at that stage--I would look at my own hand first, and then make up an excuse to look at his hand. Like "I'm going to die in 10 years; my life line is really short. What about yours, let me see...(takes hand, traces lines). Oh, yours is better. Your hands are kinda rough, what do you do with them? (rubs calluses)..." It's seriously smooth sailing from there on out. Try it! I'll have to work up the courage for this one. Somehow, to me, the dress move seems easier than doing this, but it's also something worth trying. I'm actually a little surprised no one's said anything about complimenting the other person, either on something that they did or "did you get a haircut?", stuff like that. When someone says something like that to you do you feel like this person is noticing you/the things you do more and is therefore paying closer attention to you? Another question of inspiration: What is the sexiest thing a guy/girl can do when they're flirting with you?
loverush Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 ask any woman in this thread they love being asked out by a cool confident guy. Then you just kiss them on the date. You know what you need to do, you just arn't confident to be yourself, you have this little voice in your head that constantly talks negative and tells you "she doesn't like you" "don't do it you'll get rejected" you get the picture. You need to BE YOURSELF, the version of yourself you want to be but are to afraid to be. Cmon MAN wasn't there a time when you just wanted to have FUN with women. YOU KNOW FUN!!!!! HORNY FUN hahah... listen you just seem so stressed out and depressed about chasing women... REMEBER and get in touch with FUN and how FUN it will be to undress a girl like she is some present then stare at her naked body and know you get to fondle it and make her cry out in pleasure. What you said is right! I agree!
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