darran Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Another thought that is really haunting me is that again i'll be alone in the new years eve. Buuuuut MY SHE is waiting out there and when i'll find her i'll give her all my love:D Thanks and will update soon if anything new happens Hey man, I'll be alone too Don't worry. Wanna make an agreement... we both do 2 weeks of no contact with the ex's and after 2 weeks we'll assess our situation. Together and here. Don't fret about being alone on New Years Eve mate....thousands of people are alone too. Man, If your ex (and mine too) want us back they will be back and make every effort to come back. Thats the truth. They are not back, right? so no matter what they are doing we both have to disappear, for a while Ok?
Author Laurik Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 When i was ready do write to you darran what happens? The phone rings...private number..hmm nothing unusual...i answered and heared her voice.First instinct was to hang up imediately but it's not me doing this.She thanked me for the good luck txt and we speaked for about half an hour mostly about me and a little about her exam..She asked me if im fine,if my relation with my parents is better,how im going at college,if i spoked with my ex ex and stuff like that. I've noticed 2 interesant things. 1.when i told her i speaked with my ex ex she was a little upset because i didnt let her talk to me all this time and 2 she told me:When you will resolve your behaviour with your parents and you'll not be that rebel maybe you can start another relationship(she didnt mentioned with who) After this conversation im exactly the same as before.I started chatting with the other girl and i'll go to sleep very chill and confident that i must love myself before loving another person. Darran i like the things u said before and now and i want to speak with you more.Please pm me with a skype or yahoo messenger id if you have,to speak and discuss about the 2 weeks of NC. Have a good night!
Author Laurik Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 why i can't pm someone on this forum?
Author Laurik Posted December 13, 2010 Author Posted December 13, 2010 The girl i loved is...with someone else That was the thing i wanted to really move on. Meanwhile i've met a very nice girl who apreciates me and really likes me. Conclusion:A lot of lessons to be learned from a relationship like this. Thank you loveshack forums,thank you all
darran Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 The girl i loved is...with someone else That was the thing i wanted to really move on. Meanwhile i've met a very nice girl who apreciates me and really likes me. Conclusion:A lot of lessons to be learned from a relationship like this. Thank you loveshack forums,thank you all hmm...how long were you broke up for?
darran Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 not good bro...just chill out and go with the flow. how old is she? Sounds like a nice rebound happening. Don't be hoping for anything. Just leave it and forget her. She sounds like bad news for YOU. You got this one back she'd be doing the same again and you'd feel like you're walking on egg shells the entire time.
Author Laurik Posted December 14, 2010 Author Posted December 14, 2010 she's 21 like me. Atm i'm over it..this other girl is amazing,she gived me the smile i really wanted and that's all that matters for me..
darran Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 and you dated for how long? Just be careful man. Ya know...Ive done a rebound before and its wierd how after a bit of time something inside switched and you realise it might have been a mistake...but maybe not...who knows. Just be careful.
Author Laurik Posted December 15, 2010 Author Posted December 15, 2010 Well i think we had...4 months of..coleagues at work and after that 8 months together. If this another girl is a mistake no harm for me..i really like staying with her and even is she's a little bit weird i like her a lot.I think it's weird because i only knew one kind on behaviour before and this one is changed drastically in good:D
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