slamma19 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Why would a guy say he wants to be friends with the girl he broke up with, but then make no initiation whatsoever to hang out, or even communicate? This has been happening to me. It was only me to ever start texting or try and make plans to hang out. When I did text him, all we ever talked about was him. So I decided to stop trying, and he we haven't talked in 4 days. Will he ever swallow his pride and contact me? After all we have been through together over the passed year and half, does he really not care enough about me to be my friend?
PegNosePete Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Why do you want to be friends with a guy who dumped you? Don't bother. Move on.
1life8love1trust Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Its not only guys, women do it all the time. Its the easiest way to break up with someone. When its over its over. Your best bet is to move on. Don't think about him or at least try not to. Things just fall into place.
ReturnToSender Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Seems to happen for one of two reasons as far as I can tell, one is to try and be "nice" about the breakup and let you down easy...giving hope that there is still a friendship between you but they dont really intend to follow through with. The other, which is what my ex did to me, to keep you on the backburner so that they know you are handy in case they decide to start something up again.
AlisaMarie Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 My ex told me he didn't want to be ememies. I like that better. You can never be friends with an ex. People just say that to be nice. I had a guy that I was in love with tell me that he didn't want me out of his life, and guess what? After a little over a year, he is honestly my best guy friend and I understand that he and I could never have a relationship. If they break up with you, they don't want to hang out and talk- because then you would still be in a relationship.
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