U1987 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 (edited) So I think it's pretty obvious that women value experience (dating experience, relationship experience, sexual experience) in a guy; far more than men do in women. However, a guy can't just come out and say "I've been with a lot of girls" to someone he's trying to date; that would be tacky and tasteless. So I'm wondering, what are some ways a guy can subtly convey experience to a girl he's trying to date? Because I'm having my first date in a while with a coworker this Tues, and I think I have some ideas. She goes to an all girls university and gave me the go ahead to pick her up. In the past few years, I've dated 2 other girls from that university so I know may way around the campus. I don't plan on flat-out saying that I've dated 2 students there, but what if I call her on my way and say something like "I'll be there in 5. What dorms are you at? Beecher? Mason? Levy?" I plan to ask that because only someone who's been on campus several times would know the names of those buildings. I'm hoping she'll subconsciously ask herself "How does he know his way around here? He must have dated someone here or had female friends here who invited him to party," and that conclusion will make her attracted to me. Another plan is that when we're walking from her dorm to my car, I look around and grin and quietly mumble "This brings back memories," hoping she'll subconsciously get the idea that I have "experience" from dating girls from that school. Another that I've heard from pickup artist websites is for guys to casually, quickly mention either an "ex-fiance" in passing in conversation with a new date. Even if you've never been engaged before, casually saying "ex-fiance" conveys that's you're capable of deeper, longterm commitment and eliminates any fear in her mind that you're a player. What do you think? Any other ideas? Suggestions? Complaints? Edited November 14, 2010 by U1987
anne1707 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 "Ex-fiance" could also imply jumping in too quickly and too seriously into relationships or the inability to follow through with true committment - i.e. all talk and no action.
Cee Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 You're a little young to be talking past engagements. And failed engagements isn't a turn-on in any age group. It can be a red flag. Brief mentions of past dating is ok and indicates that you have experience. Good luck on your date. Have fun.
welikeincrowds Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I can never tell if you're a troll or not. I can never tell.
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