DellPickle Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Okay, so Ive gone out with a coworker three times, we've had a blast, but Ive been hesitant to move very fast since we work together and I havent gotten my normal positive signs (which is fine). So after our date tonight, Im dropping her off and she's about to leave and I told her I had a question for her; and in so many words I basically asked her what is she looking for/open to the possibilities of happening from our dates. And we have hung out as in non-date setting a few times and know each other pretty well, so I felt it was a good time to make sure that her and I are on the same page. I asked my question and told her I would answer my question first. My words werent that clear, but basically I said, I enjoy your company, like your personality and Im trying to get to know you better to see if there is potential of a relationship in the future. She in less words said she agreed, since we work together she just wants to see where it leads; take it slow. It was awkward, and she said she doesnt do well talking about stuff like this. I asked her if she wanted to keep going out, and she responded clearly "yes" (no hesitation), but it all just happened so fast and it was awkward so I'd like to double check to make sure we are indeed on the same page and to end on a less awkward note before work on Monday. Her awkwardness wasnt like, this guy is crazy, get me away, it was the awkwardness that is, hey I knew this topic had to come up at some point, but still I dont like talking about it b/c Im not sure how I feel. And I feel kind of the same way So should I call to clarify things and to help make things less awkward for Monday? Im thinking I should, I think the risk of not being on the same page could ruin anything potential. And I dont know how I feel, as Ive been slow to develop feelings because she's been hard to read and since we work together, a bad move could screw it up, and then I still have to see her everyday. Thanks
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