nowwhatnow Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 ok you have just been dumped and you have the chance to leave the country, get away for a while, because your job is offering a position over seas for half a year...would you??? what are the pros and cons emotionally??
sedgwick Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Do it and don't look back! You will never regret it! There are no cons, your ex is your ex and no decisions you make should be based on that person any longer. Go have an adventure!
stopthemadness Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 ok you have just been dumped and you have the chance to leave the country, get away for a while, because your job is offering a position over seas for half a year...would you??? what are the pros and cons emotionally?? Go and dont look back untell its time to come back. I would soo go..Good Luck and gess have some fun......
Author nowwhatnow Posted November 14, 2010 Author Posted November 14, 2010 but if i go, i always have to come back
sedgwick Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Yup, and if you live you always have to die, but that shouldn't stop you from living.
ReturnToSender Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Yup, and if you live you always have to die, but that shouldn't stop you from living. I love this....
sedgwick Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 "Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold." -- Helen Keller
Author nowwhatnow Posted November 24, 2010 Author Posted November 24, 2010 IM GOING do I tell him one last time how I feel before I go? It is not like he will be able to contact me, I have deleted him from fb, but I just want him to think about us while I'm gone I guess. It is not like I am expecting him to want me back when I get back from my job, I guess I am still hoping for that... It would not be like a begging him, just telling him I still care for him and we can think about being friends when I get back kinda thing. thoughts?!
lee123 Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 Slip inside the eye of your mind, don't you know you might find a better place to play. You said you'd never been, but all the things that you've seen, will slowly fade away. know what your going through. As it says, you'll find a better place, to move on. I decided that today after she left me to just be friends, took me back. It will never be the same as before, its not worth it go and have fun. All the bad times and memories will fade away eventually. Good luck
Author nowwhatnow Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 i just do not think I am ready to let go leaving was a way to physically force myself to let go, but i am going to carry this pain inside me wherever i go. i just want to see him one last time, just to know, just to see the look in his eyes, just to be ok
lee123 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 I know its not hard to let go, but you've got move on, you deserve better. Find other things to do, go out with friends, feel better about life. I did, i started going to gym, makes me feel better. Being focusing on my band, getting a record label, things are on the up, i'm better off now, so i have the last laugh. I couldn't of done that thinking about my ex all the time. Good things will come if you try not to think about it, no ones saying it's easy, i feel your pain.
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